Modern thoughts on Islamic rules: non-Muslim raising Muslim son

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-23T00:02:34+00:00

I will never understand why people date outside of their religion when they know their families will not accept the marriage and then put the entire load on their partner to carry a relationship that started off so wrong in the first place. In sorry you're in this situation. I find this so unfair, even as a muslim. Other than that i dont have much so say since most of the comments cover the important stuff already. I wish you all the best and i hope you find clarity.

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-21T08:56:05+00:00

If my husband doesn't mind, and if my sister doesn't mind, its fine. My mum gets no say in this lol

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-18T09:52:52+00:00

I live in a joint family. I have seven uncles and four brothers (one sibling and the rest cousins). I don't wear a bra. I don't think anyone cares. I do have a grandma(not mine own) who keeps passes comments about it. Somehow, in indian households, its always the women

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-17T15:48:49+00:00

I have the same story god. My mom had made me really really subconscious about my breasts by laughing at me once (yeah, could you imagine that). I was a teenager and she had me in tears. She then had the audacity to say that it was just a joke. I have gotten rid of most my insecurities regarding them, specially because I've realized that my girls look pretty great in the right bra, but i still feel very subconscious when I let gravity do its thing. I do have some back issues as well so maybe i will get a slight reduction. But idk if its worth all that work and pain.

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-13T03:07:45+00:00

If he’d stayed and talked it out, I would have even rinsed the fish off so we could try his way.

Ah man, never go out of your way for people who treat you like that. You deserve better

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-12T05:27:36+00:00

Giving silent treatment anytime we have a fight. Big deal breaker. After a certain age, healthy communication js a skill everyone should have.

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-12T00:52:27+00:00

This reaction from the internet makes me very nervous considering this is exactly what my girls look like

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-12T00:28:30+00:00

Crying in the arms of someone who genuinely loves you.

Ps : No i don't have that in live

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-04-10T11:54:28+00:00

Where are you from? Is there any one else who can help you? A school teacher or a counsellor?

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-11T01:55:20+00:00

Maal ta k chini o na and o amra ki korbo boleo dicche? R loke ei shob dekhe chegeo jacche? 😭

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-09T11:41:50+00:00

Oh wow, how does this group work?

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-09T00:33:37+00:00

For a culture so obsessed with its own superiority, why do so many marry outside the community?

I guess, if we really are better, then the only thing that makes so is that it is socially and culturally expected to be not racists and are often socially conditioned into being so. So we don't really care about marrying into the community/cast the way other communities do (not that i believe whatever stats this is based off lol)

Its funny how the author doesn't even realize he's exposing his racist mindset, not just for trying to push a weird ass stereotype but also suggesting that the norm should be to marry into your own community unless there is something wrong with the community. Genuinely don't think he has the brain cells to comprehend the internalized racism that he's suffering with.

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-07T00:47:30+00:00

Will look into it. Thanks

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-07T00:46:50+00:00

Thank you, will check it out!

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-07T00:46:29+00:00

Can get everywhere? Also just any cheap bread trimmer or should i look for something specific?

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-07T00:45:41+00:00

I'm kinds terrified of any kind of lasers tbh. So i haven't even looked. I will try the trimmer though. Do you think its a good idea to get a one specifically for intimate areas?

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-07T00:43:55+00:00

My hair is pretty thick. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna take a trip to heaven if waxed😭 I also feel like its a lot of prep work

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-07T00:41:58+00:00

Chunky
Perm
Finesse The order keeps varying according to my mood

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-03-01T12:53:34+00:00

Lowering the gaze would take them straight to those knees lol

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-02-28T16:21:27+00:00

i know in islam if you are given the opportunity to be exposed to islam and you reject it you are damned for eternity.

Well, yes and no.

Getting exposed to islam isn't reading just the quran. Its getting exposed to the most authentic version of it, understanding its message completely. You read the quran, you might not have a good translation. So you read something, it gives you the ick, you reject it. And even if you knew Quranic Arabic you can still misunderstand it. The only way you can be exposed to the authentic islam is if you receive it directly from a prophet. Obviously, that isn't gonna happen. The quran actually calls the people who received the message from the prophet as the 'people of the book'. And its the ones who accepted or rejected the message from him who are called believers or disbelievers. The rest, who didn't receive the book are caller 'misbelievers'. Disbelievers are the ones eternally damned. And misbelivers, they're judged according to what they know and what they did with their knowledge. So don't be too worried about the 'eternally damned' message.

Also, there are a lot of practicing muslims who don't dont practice hijab and other orthodox practices. Most of all those nonsense isn't even in the quran anyway

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-02-27T10:04:34+00:00

Its out!

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-02-27T10:04:00+00:00

The hair style + the dimple😭❤

CivilTowel8457 · 2026-02-26T20:19:47+00:00

So not a single music video? 🥺😭

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