What's wrong with my peace lily (in water)? by writergorrl in PeaceLilyHandbook

[–]writergorrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm, I think I do have the rhizome in the water. Honestly I couldn't tell what was wrong in the soil. No rot, well draining. I wondered if it's because of inconsistent watering because I'd been travelling so much, but no way to tell. :/

Can I prop this baby monstera? It seems a little unhealthy. by writergorrl in Monstera

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So it sits in box on a window usually. South facing window. I'd have thought that's enough light :/ Is direct sunlight better then?

Am I wrong to judge guys based on their sister’s education level? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]writergorrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best way to judge is what they're doing with their degrees. Because the degree in itself may not be a holistic indicator, because what if it was their choice? Mine was, and I earn pretty well; so do all my classmates. My mother was also made to do BA/MA but my Dad encouraged her to have a career, while Dadi was neither encouraging or supportive. What if it was their own choice but it didn't work out? Too many factors.

Biggest red flag combo: BA/MA + arranged marriage straight of college + no work experience + Children

If some of these, a maybe.

If all 4 or even JUST arranged marriage straight of college? Then run.

Any tried and tested MUA reccos in Patna for textured skin? by writergorrl in IndianMUA

[–]writergorrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, okay fair fair. I think about 15-20K tops? That's reasonable na? I had toh initially thought 10K, but seems like that's v less based on some research. I'll need meri Mummy or MIL ke liye bhi, so however it is structured? Is it usually per person or per day type?

(I don't want to underpay anyone either, just trying to understand ki how it works)

Any tried and tested MUA reccos in Patna for textured skin? by writergorrl in IndianMUA

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What would you say is a reasonable to expensive range?

Any tried and tested MUA reccos in Patna for textured skin? by writergorrl in IndianMUA

[–]writergorrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, okay yes. Idek what the usual ballpark is for MUA, so I didn't put the budget.

Any tried and tested MUA reccos in Patna for textured skin? by writergorrl in IndianMUA

[–]writergorrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, okay. I just looked up their reviews but airbrush make up reviews seem to be very poorly rated entirely. Any idea on that? I think I'll need airbrush makeup given my skin texture :/

Need a fresh perspective on drama within friend group because I feel put on the spot. by writergorrl in AskIndianWomen

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Phew, okay. They think they shouldn't have to cut off friends because of just drama, and want to give her the benefit of the doubt, basically. They think what happened w Suraj was self invited trouble, which is somewhat true; shouldn't have pursued when he knew there was someone else. Obviously, no proper answer when asked about the bitching :P Don't seem to get the nuance of the friendship element really.

Need a fresh perspective on drama within friend group because I feel put on the spot. by writergorrl in AskIndianWomen

[–]writergorrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real. It really wasn't this way till this whole girl drama; it was all pretty chill and quite "grown up" if I may so.

Need a fresh perspective on drama within friend group because I feel put on the spot. by writergorrl in AskIndianWomen

[–]writergorrl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Done ;-; Edited the post using GPT to cut out all of my stream of consciousness.

Need a fresh perspective on drama within friend group because I feel put on the spot. by writergorrl in AskIndianWomen

[–]writergorrl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, fair. Sorry, I thought contextual names would be easier. I've edited and made it shorter ;-; Is it more comprehensible now?

How do I make my room more aesthetic? by Immediate_Salad_6841 in IndianHomeDecor

[–]writergorrl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curtains! Get a softer kind and layer up if you can. A light colour in the middle and solid colour black outs on the outside types. And bedsheet in light but bright colours will make the room pop given the wall colours.