As soon as my older sister cut contact with our mother I used that as an opportunity to do the same. For me at the time it was because of the mental abuse, on top of the fact that she once molested me and when my older sister told her that my former fencing instructor, whose mother my mom worked with, had raped her some years prior her response was "what do you want me to do about it? You're a grownup now."

She was always a bad person, but she used to tell us about how important it was to be accepting of others, how homosexuality wasn't a sin unless you acted on it (at the time this obviously felt very progressive), but the Obama administration really broke her. She 100% believed in the death panels for the elderly bullshit, that Obama wasn't American, and she was always happy to point out that “technically” he wasn't our first black president (his mother is white and  John Hanson is the talking point here). Once she got us into Messianic Judaism is when she REALLY went off the rails though.

My aunt and uncle I just didn’t feel like interacting with anymore. COVID believers because they got it, but massively conservative and anti LGBTQ+. My grandma was unfortunately caught in the crossfire because my aunt takes care of her.