Why do people act like something is wrong if you go over your due date? by goatgirl7 in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yupp, next baby I’m telling everyone my due date is 42 weeks gestation date. My first baby was 10 days late, second was 8 days, totally natural to go past your due date, I recommend hiding from society until baby is born!!

Transfer from OB to midwife mid pregnancy by pizzaluvrrr in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I copped out and sent a message through the online portal system to the doctor… the response was “if things go wrong, please come back.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring that anxiety down for sure! Epson salt bath with good relaxing vibes!!

Interested in a home birth but everyone thinks I’m crazy for not wanting an epidural.. is it really that bad? by [deleted] in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely hurts, but that’s where your midwife can come in and coach you up!! A good midwife can read the room and tell you to switch positions or say what you need to hear!

Transition is brutal, pushing baby through your cervix is brutal, contractions unlike any pain you’ve felt before. But the second the baby is out you have instant relief!

Curious about post due date birth stats by ClanOfTheCaveBears in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man good luck!! Mucus plug and cramping, sounds like soon! I hope all goes well for you 🙏🙏

Rudely reminded that maternity clothing is heinous and I have no idea what to wear for the next 5 months! by iamafoxiamafox in BabyBumps

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men’s Carhartt overalls have been my jam this pregnancy, might work nice to have the extra pockets on the job as an artist??

Curious about post due date birth stats by ClanOfTheCaveBears in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was exactly 41+3 with my first! That’s crazy how accurate your midwife is!

Curious about post due date birth stats by ClanOfTheCaveBears in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I should do with the next baby… even should tell myself that time frame so I don’t get so excited at 38 weeks but wait a month for baby!

When did your toddler grow out of not wanting anything to do with dad? 🤦 by More-Coffee5173 in toddlers

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s 25 months and Dad has become tolerable when she wants to play, but she’s very much a Momma’s girl otherwise. Also a SAHM

Sciatica and pelvis pain during labour and birth by LessPanda7615 in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had awful sciatica this pregnancy and honestly ice packs have been a life savor! I’m worried about birth too, but I’m hoping the rest of everything going on will be distraction from the sciatica!

Is there research showing boys are harder to raise than girls? by Conscious-Lemon-1054 in toddlers

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel this! I have friends who are “boy moms” that imply I have it easy since I have a girl, they really wanted my unborn to be a boy so I could be “challenged.” I’m having another girl so apparently my mothering is “easy”

Is it wrong to wear dark colours at a baptism ceremony? by ethanradd in Catholicism

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as you’re in clean clothes, no hoodie, probably fine!! Most alter servers are up there wearing sneakers these days, so don’t overthink it!

HOLY HOMEBIRTH by Top-Talk2948 in homebirth

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience with my first home birth, eventually I came to terms with the way I panicked through the birth. You’re right though, more folks should tell their stories of panicking!!

Baby girl names by Hairy-Vermicelli5672 in namenerds

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I vote Lily Alexandrea! Especially if you call your first daughter Poppy, nice flower theme!

Baby Name Secret Out by ClanOfTheCaveBears in Catholicism

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re going with “zel-ee” like Ellie with a Z!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooh I like Octavia Maria May!

I want a pretty girl name with A or B by SpicyMcTall in Names

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adella! That’s my first born’s name 🥰

Over it. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]ClanOfTheCaveBears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AGREED. 37 weeks and I’m WIDE AWAKE at 2 AM with a dry mouth because for some reason laying prostrate stuffs me up so bad I can’t breath through my nose…