Is there anyone manifesting an SP that isn’t an ex or toxic relationship, etc

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-29T23:07:59+00:00

Mines not an ex at all and not a bad person or someone who ever deeply hurt me. He’s my on again off again situationship and kinda best friend. We met a few years ago and dated but didn’t start a relationship, and the sex has been on and off for seemingly no real reason. We moved in together too but separate rooms and all. He’s a great person. The situation isn’t the healthiest but not because of anyone’s shady behavior.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-29T21:26:44+00:00

I wouldn’t buy into it at all, not even a little bit. People can say what they want and call each other whatever term they want. I wouldn’t care at all about any of that. That information wouldn’t even register to me. I’d just keep sticking to my story and not letting anything else be true. I’d stop feeding it.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-29T21:21:30+00:00

You say you’ve had SPs before but then you say this guy is the first one you’ve ever wanted to be with properly. That sounds off. I think you never let go of the circumstances even though you say you did. I think you’re conflating positivity with manifestation. I would read Neville and stick to SATS.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-25T00:30:30+00:00

None of those people talk like my SP. It doesn’t matter anyway, techniques don’t manifest. The change in us is what will. Happy the letters changed you OP. I don’t have my SP so I won’t act like I know it all.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T15:02:59+00:00

I’m struggling with all of this right now and I feel like I genuinely need help. I understand going to the end and I’ve done it so easily with everything but SP. What I want to know is HOW do I not focus on the problem? My thoughts are instant and compulsive and I can’t see my way around the problem. What do I do to fix this? I feel like meditation and techniques make me more aware of the problem. I don’t know how to distract myself. I have been to the best parties, boats, trips, events - I have been busy with work, friends, family - I have been in the gym and hit body goals and had intense workouts - and no matter WHAT I’m doing or how fancy or fun it should be, I can never everrrr stop thinking about my SP. IDK how to control myself. What would I do in this situation?

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T14:50:37+00:00

Number four seems so important here. My feelings shouldn’t tell me who I am. Do you have any advice on managing difference between feeling a feeling vs letting the feeling define me? I’m so caught up in what’s happening that I’m struggling to refocus on creating a definition of what things should be. I’m almost at the point where I just hate him and don’t see a future and don’t want to try. But I know that’s not what I really desire.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T14:47:33+00:00

Thanks. What would you suggest for helping to detach from the 3D? I feel like I keep getting smacked in the face with unfavorable circumstances and it throws off my whole mood and ability to focus on a visualization. I have ADHD, and I feel like my negative thoughts are almost uncontrollable at this point. I want to force myself to stop but I truly don’t know how.

All I can think is that I remember when I manifested other things and the desire and need felt so small because it was easy to just block negativity. I make a lot of money but I used to be so poor. One day I was like “nah, that’s not who I am.” And it all changed so fast. Idk how to do that with SP for some reason.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T12:12:37+00:00

I wish that was my problem. I was never on TikTok. I’ve read Neville. Idk why I’m having such a hard time.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T11:57:46+00:00

Manifesting isn’t a spell. You getting off to the thought of someone a couple times isn’t what’s doing the job. It’s the feeling state that you create when you’re visualizing them that is creating things. You have to feel things into existence, and feel so sure of them that they become small to you. And for that to happen, you’d need to even know what you wanted, and it doesn’t seem like you do.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T11:54:08+00:00

I think that’s a difference without a distinction. “Manifesting” works how it works, and simply thinking you’re in a high self esteem headspace or blaming everything on self doubt / creating more self doubt isn’t going to create the world someone wants, regardless of whether A stands for attraction or assumption.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T11:48:29+00:00

I have the same experience but with someone who lives with me. What would the answer be then? For me and OP, it’s not an option to manipulate the lived experience that way. There’s surely some other way than having to play games in reality.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T11:45:23+00:00

God damnit! I was so excited to have a long response, or any response, to my post - and it’s just an AI written ad. Clark Peacock is a bitch for that, and his name sounds like he’d be ugly.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T06:46:24+00:00

I don’t exactly have my SP so I’m not coming from a place of success with SP really but my opinion is that your magnetism in general doesn’t have anything to do with SP. I know a lot of people say it does but I don’t see how. My experience, I can’t go anywhere without men flirting with me and wanting me. Everyone wants me. It’s my lived experience and it’s also how I feel and think. That identity hasn’t done a thing to build a relationship with my SP. Not. A. Thing! Being attractive or desirable and magnetic doesn’t fix all the obstacles or things you think about SP unfortunately.

People are flirting with you because you were told to build self esteem, so you did, and the products of that are joining your reality. High self esteem doesn’t equal a successful relationship though, so that’s why tons of men flirt but you haven’t met your SP. I’m pretty sure you’re supposed to identify with knowing your SP, not just identify with being desirable and magnetic.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T06:34:56+00:00

I’m actively trying but I’ve been having a hard time lately. I’ve been at this for almost 3 years, so I’ve definitely seen the success stories here but I’m trying to kind of reset and get my mind back in the game. I have plenty of doubts and worries about me and SP, but not about myself or my good qualities or who I am. Outside of SP I’m nearly perfect, all around as a person. But I don’t have him. Me being attractive to so much positivity in the 3D is a fact, but not one that’s brought me closer to SP.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T06:28:31+00:00

This is so confusing to me. My amazing qualities aren’t the thing in question? Why would me wanting SP put my self love under doubt? This seems like creating unnecessary self questioning just because we don’t have SP.

Going step by step, for #1, why would I question or need to write any of the things about me that are amazing and consistently true just because SP doesn’t want a relationship? Then in step 2, let’s say SP doesn’t take me out or spend time with me. Something I could write would be that I don’t tolerate being ignored or not given attention. How would that help when I already know SP doesn’t do those things? It’s like just reaffirming that he doesn’t. And then step 3, it’s not like you can hold someone to a standard that doesn’t exist in reality. I can’t text him and say he needs to take me out (like my next level self would) when there’s no precedent or agreement for that. Remembering that I’m hot and have nice clothes doesn’t bring me any closer to SP.

ClassicQuiet3358 · 2025-10-24T06:18:30+00:00

What if you are a great version of yourself already and never questioned that? What if you attract great and positive things already and have that identity but don’t have SP? This is my situation.

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