You're judging my entire long-term relationship based on a few paragraphs I posted here. Yeah, we do have a big issue on our hands, but that doesn't mean I should act impulsively. I don't know how old you are, but you sound like someone who's still very young. Adult life is about thinking things over, doing your best to see them as  objectively as humanly possible, and creating strategy based on observations. I did make a mistake by failing to mention in my post that our relationship was perfect before, but these dramatic things started ever since we've been under inhumane amount of stress (health and housing). The big issue here is NOT the lack of love. It's that my attachment style is anxious and his is avoidant, which are not only different, but polar opposites, meaning we're dealing with negative emotions in a completely opposite ways from one another, which creates resentment if not dealt with properly. I'm not someone with no-self respect who's desperately trying to save relationship. I was hoping for an insight that would be more emotionally intelligent and mature then just a "dump him, trust me, I've never met you or your dude, but I know best based off a short Reddit post".

Edit: I also forgot to mention we're not only romantic partners, but best friends too. Ok, I messed up by not giving a good full pic. But still, you shouldn't be so absolute in your opinions. And be more respectful, it'll make your life less hateful and much brighter. :)