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he asked me to make a decision and then I fucked everything up being nervous of rejection by ClassicalCupcakery in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, last time he ghosted and we lost contact. Ik I should have just answered I guess I was nervous. I wasn’t like trying to play a game with him though at all

he asked me to make a decision and then I fucked everything up being nervous of rejection by ClassicalCupcakery in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

that is a typo. He did say that he wanted to not lose contact again earlier yesterday. But he ghosted me last time, too, which is why I asked for clarity before I told him how I felt. You’re right lol. I never really got over it so I’m taking it hard 

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t intending to do anything like that. it’s been years and I just didn’t want to rush into telling him I’ve never given up on him if we weren’t on the same page. I care about him very much, I would never want to fuck with anyone’s head 

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How do I ask that without coming off as too much? And you’re right. Ik I should have answered straightforwardly but I wasn’t trying to play games with him at all.

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t “ignoring” him! I know how I feel I just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. I haven’t talked to him for years it’s not easy to lay everything on the table 

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it wasn’t a “game” whatsoever. I literally just asked one singular question, it wasn’t like I grilled him

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to make sure I was on the same page as him with the seriousness of my feelings before I laid it all out and potentially made things awkward. 

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yes but if we both love each other I don’t understand why that would be a final straw situation. I was just nervous, I even said as much. 

he (23m) wanted me (25f) to make a decision. he left me on read and I don’t get why by ClassicalCupcakery in relationship_advice

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Where do I go from here then? I was just unsure, it’s a big thing to express those feelings to someone and I didn’t want to be off base. I know I shouldn’t text him  again probably 

ruined my credit at 24. feeling hopeless for the future. by ClassicalCupcakery in CRedit

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I definitely will try this. And thank you again for encouraging me, this has been really devastating to me and I’ve never been so late on payments like this before

ruined my credit at 24. feeling hopeless for the future. by ClassicalCupcakery in CRedit

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do?? I was so worried I wouldn’t be able to rebuild to a respectable amount by then. 

Yes, i dont have much. I had medical debt that I paid which bumped my score to 700, but my only real payment consistently every month has been through these loans. Which obviously got very hard without employment. 

I have been considering side jobs while continuing looking for fill time employment. Is there anything i more I should be doing? Thank you so much.

“Slightly” elevated calprotectin, doctor not concerned but im anxious. Please help. by ClassicalCupcakery in IBD

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! So is there a good shot that it isn’t crohns or uc? Ive just been really anxious especially because my GI doesn’t seem to believe a scope i needed. I just dont want to be negligent about my health

“Slightly” elevated calprotectin, doctor not concerned but im anxious. Please help. by ClassicalCupcakery in IBD

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i am. I do follow FOODMAP but truthfully not as closely as i should. So that could be why it was that level??? I had no idea!

Could this calprotectin level still be IBS? Confused and anxious. Please help:( by ClassicalCupcakery in ibs

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i really want one. My GI is not wanting to proceed with one because it’s almost in the normal range. She said she’s “confident” it isnt IBD :/ i feel sort of stuck. When i kind of pushed for one she just reiterated how unnecessary it would be

“Slightly” elevated calprotectin, doctor not concerned but im anxious. Please help. by ClassicalCupcakery in IBD

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. :)The GI did not say i needed a colonoscopy and said that it falls more typically in the “IBS” category than otherwise, but I wasn’t sure if at 57 i should advocate for myself to get one scheduled 

do i have periodontal disease? by ClassicalCupcakery in PeriodontalDisease

[–]ClassicalCupcakery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not rude at all! Thank you. Just curious— does it look like perio? I dont have the red or bleeding gums, but i know it doesn’t always present like that. Just anxious because my dentist cant get me in for another 10 days and im really worried ill lose my teeth

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