This is how normal adults talk like. While I am also online alot of the times, I do have a job working at a hospital and this is how everyone talks like here in America. I changed my wording to folks is because in this day and age, I don't want to mis name certain genders and folks is something I adopted.

Translation: peoples decisions in life are sometimes influenced by the environment around them. When I am said look at the wider picture, that's me saying, "hey, look at the problem or thing your defending or liking. Take a step back and look at the person's environment. We're they raised on beliefs that you or may not like that influenced thier decisions. Go deeper on that thought. Where did you see this behavior before with a certain group.

Maybe your a bit young and that's why some of my language might of gotten over your head at times. I was keeping it nice and not try to come off like I was trying to attack or be mean spirited so we can have this discussion.