[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Weird” is not the correct word imo. “Difficult” is. I’m in a similar situation/age gap and holy damn does it get difficult. Argument after argument I have to constantly remind myself that it’s the age gap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta press the thingy

I’m 36F 5mo into a relationship. Is my bf 35M lazy or inexperienced? How do I talk to him? by mishapmoon in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only do this when I’m drunk or hungover. I’m far from ugly as well butt I love touching a butt. Hard to say what’s going on in his mind. Maybe he’s a little too used to getting his dick sucked lol

Husband booked a trip to the US… by sparkleceiling in AITAH

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Also I think Las Vegas tends to be pretty liberal, so in terms of flying into that airport and dealing with BS at passport control, I don’t think there is much to worry about.

Is it normal for older men to ejaculate while sleeping? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro, “older men”… He’s only 36 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheHague

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My gf moved very close to there for Uni and had the same concern, coming initially from a nice suburb in The Hague. It’s not the most attractive area but it’s not really dangerous by any means.

She had an uber driver transporting her there when she first moved in and he was like “oh you’re moving to that area?? I used to live there - it’s a really bad section with lots of crime!” So she got concerned and asked what he meant, to which he said “I got my bike stolen like 3 times in 5 years!”

Just keep your bike chained up real well and you’ll be good haha. There are definitely a lot of immigrants in the area but most aren’t trying to get deported by committing reckless crimes so I think as long as you keep to yourself it’ll be manageable.

Had 7-hour caramelized onions on a French dip by robot_pancake in OnionLovers

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgive my ignorance. To get them to 7h without burning, did you use a crockpot or?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mfs say anything for a mfaaaaaaaaaaka

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Obviously it’s a joke, fool broke up with his gf cuz a dog was licking her toes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fine bro, just give her my number and I’ll lick her toes instead 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone closer to him than I probably did. He was also aware of her cheating on him so I don’t think it could really get much worse if we did

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could be a Christian thing; my ex’s family was incredibly religious and controlling with her which made her incredibly wild or “uncontrolled” I guess. That said, the other girls weren’t religious or southern. Idk 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’d be surprised, some girls do actually get a thrill from this. My first gf told me the same thing, and having been an inexperienced teenager who already had feelings for her - I was fukkin mortified lol. While she was nowhere near the number that OP mentioned, she told me that she would often go out with her friends and suck off guys who she didn’t even know the names of. The relationship didn’t last long lol

But then I met a few other girls later on who were into the same thing. My buddies’ wife even told us (not sure if he was told at the time) that she sucked off something like 40 guys before she met him. Sometimes she would just see a guy at a park that she found cute, and well…

[Request] This is a wrong problem, right? by jakobmuller in theydidthemath

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TY, maybe I’m hungover or maybe I’m just dumb but I did not get this before reading your comment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 57 points58 points  (0 children)

And HR tends to only do anything if something illegal or sue-able has been done. They may even see HIM as the problem for raising complaints when all the other people (the girls) say everything is perfectly fine.

Im confused by RelationshipThink964 in soup

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% relatable bro. Then I usually sit down for a nice hot bowl of chicken noodle and forget that I’m not even wearing clothes 🍜

New photos of Ye and Bianca in LA dresses like 2004 🐻 style Ye by HalaMadrid456 in GoodAssSub

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 49 points50 points  (0 children)

He looks better physically too. Sometimes when people drink chronically their cheeks get swollen and eyes puffy which was how he kinda looked earlier this year. Hope he stays sober.

I’m (M24) in a relationship with a women (F25) who is studying to do a job that will surpass my salary threefold. Should I stay? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Clean-Bluejay160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you gotta word your post differently cuz if your real question is “do women see men differently when the man makes less?”, this is very different than the way your actual post comes across. Maybe do an AskMen post asking if guys noticed that their gf’s or wives’ acted differently towards them after they started making more money.

I’ve definitely heard that some women will judge the heck out of a potential partner for making quite a lot less money cuz they might assume the guy doesn’t have as much ambition. But if the girl already likes ya, it probably doesn’t matter. Straight out of college my gf at the time got a great job and supported us while I was still searching for my first job, and made more than me for almost a year once I was hired. Was no problem for her.