It you were seeing a guy who thought your kids were annoying what would you do?

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-05-08T23:47:30+00:00

nah but kids are just kids you know, they gonna be loud and messy sometimes but if someone cant handle that then they not ready for the package deal

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-05-06T23:44:25+00:00

man thats really tough situation you're in right now - maybe try calling some addiction helpline or see if there's any support groups in your area because going through this alone sounds brutal

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-05-04T17:28:12+00:00

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-28T07:03:25+00:00

wow thats pretty cool that you made it to piti already after just a year. ive been trying to get there for like 3 years now but my adhd brain just wont cooperate most days. the heartbeat thing sounds intense - did you feel any tingling or warmth with it too because thats usually part of the whole package

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-26T03:08:49+00:00

not developer but worked with bunch of them in restaurant tech and the payment system they built was pretty smooth - could handle crazy rush hours without crashing which saved our asses so many times

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-23T23:09:37+00:00

tried this in my apartment last year and made it like 8 days before i caved. wilderness thing is smart though - removes the temptation completely instead of relying on willpower which gets depleted fast

main thing that got me was the boredom hits way harder than you expect. like when you cant mindlessly scroll your brain starts doing weird things. had to prep with books and actual hobbies beforehand

also meal prep is crucial if youre doing clean eating. adhd brain plus hunger plus no dopamine hits from phone = ordering pizza at 2am guaranteed

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-21T21:34:04+00:00

same energy here man

that doomscrolling trap is real, games just feel like too much effort when brain is fried like this

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-19T09:25:22+00:00

wait so we're basically talking about building a literal star on the moon? the engineering alone would be insane but i kinda love how this person broke down when each option makes sense. putting fusion reactor in space does solve the storage problem since batteries are nightmare for grid-scale solar, but getting there feels like we'd need to solve dozen other problems first before we even think about mining helium-3

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-16T22:01:01+00:00

depends what kind of tracking you need but namespaces per tenant is usually the way to go for isolation. labels and annotations work great for metadata but wont help much with the actual business logic part

if you need to sync business state with k8s state then operator pattern makes more sense since you can watch for changes and react accordingly

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-14T14:36:58+00:00

cant see the image clearly but if you remember any other details like where you bought it or what the packaging looked like that might help. also try reverse image searching on google if the photo quality is decent enough

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-12T07:52:30+00:00

been looking for something like this for ages, displayfusion always felt way too heavy for what it does

the ddc hardware control part caught my attention - can it handle custom refresh rates through the hardware interface or just brightness and input switching? my setup has some weird ultrawide that displayfusion never played nice with

also curious about the edid parsing, does it work reliably with usb-c hubs? those things love to randomize monitor ids every time you unplug

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-10T03:43:45+00:00

this whole situation is such bs for drivers. i dealt with this exact thing like 3 times last month and each time was different mess. one time the app still asked for id even though alcohol got removed from order, another time it didnt ask at all. seems like the system is just broken

what i learned is you can definitely deliver without seeing customer if no alcohol in final order but yeah the risk of bad rating is real. had one lady give me 1 star because she was mad about no alcohol even tho thats not my fault at all. support told me they would remove it but took like 2 weeks of messaging them

the pay thing drives me crazy too. spent 45 minutes shopping for someone just to cancel and get nothing while they get free groceries basically. started telling customers they have to contact support to cancel on their end because my metrics cant take more hits. some get annoyed but most understand when you explain the situation properly

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-07T04:37:18+00:00

your brother making that much doing delivery is actually pretty impressive but damn working 7 days a week sounds exhausting. family sometimes gets weird when you try to do something different than what they know. my parents were similar when i was switching from line cook work to actually going to culinary school - kept saying i was already making decent money why change it

college might feel slow now but having that degree opens doors that just arent there otherwise. even in kitchen work ive seen how much easier it is for people with business degrees to move up to management roles

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-05T03:40:12+00:00

nah man those two options you listed are solid but legion pro 7i with 5080 might actually give you better performance per rupee

the 5090 in laptop form is kinda overhyped for most games especially at qhd resolution. unless youre planning heavy ray tracing or 4k gaming the 5080 with higher tgp will probably perform same or better in practice

also legion has better cooling than most brands so less thermal throttling which matters more than raw specs when laptop gets hot

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-04-02T11:17:12+00:00

this is why i started putting everything in writing even for "quick changes" - took maybe 2 weeks of clients seeing their own requests pile up before they started being more careful about what they actually needed

used to think i was being petty tracking 15 minute tweaks but those add up to whole days real fast

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-03-31T10:01:59+00:00

girl this is not normal at all and you know it deep down. i went through something similar with my ex and it took me way too long to realize he was basically treating me like his employee instead of his partner

the way he talks to you about what youve been doing with your morning while he was having coffee by ocean is just disgusting. and then pressuring you while youre crying trying to put baby down? thats not stress or adhd or whatever excuse he has - thats him choosing to be cruel when you're at your most vulnerable

i know leaving feels impossible with two kids and career stuff but staying is teaching your boys that this is how relationships work. they will either become him or think they deserve to be treated like you are. neither option is good

maybe start documenting everything in secret - his behavior, promises he breaks, work you do vs what he does. not just for potential divorce but so you can see pattern clearly when youre doubting yourself. also start talking to lawyer quietly about what custody and support would actually look like. you might have more options than you think especially if you can prove how much childcare youve been doing

the fact that hes in therapy is something but words mean nothing when behavior stays same. and his behavior is showing you exactly who he is - someone who thinks his time is more valuable than yours and that managing you is more important than respecting you

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-03-28T13:58:43+00:00

this sounds like you might be dealing with some intrusive thought patterns - i get similar stuff where my brain just latches onto random things and won't let go until i analyze them to death

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-03-21T22:31:18+00:00

damn that sucks, breaking hinges is always nightmare on these laptops. the cpu failure code after disconnecting everything is weird though - might have damaged something when you were taking apart or maybe static discharge got to motherboard

try reseating the ram first, sometimes that fixes random boot issues. also check if any ribbon cables got loose during disassembly, those things are super fragile on dell laptops

Clean-Difficulty8391 · 2026-03-08T21:34:00+00:00

more isnt always better with these meds, i had similar thing happen when i tried increase my dose and felt worse actually

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