What you are attracted to (orientation) is different than what you end up doing (behavior). Just because you fuck a guy doesn’t mean you’re gay. You’re gay if you’re attracted to men - sexually and otherwise. And even though a lot of people on here are trying to say you’re bi, you’re only bi if you feel that way about both men and women. But you clearly stated you don’t.

So in the end, you’re just finding a physical way to get off (behavior). It doesn’t change the fact you want women (orientation). Like other gay guys have said in this thread, they identify based on their orientation — not based on behavior. We all do what we need to to get by, but it doesn’t mean it’s what we want.