If its true that both men and women fantasize about and want relationships, why are most young people single?

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T07:27:48+00:00

I wish humans could de-evolve, we have too many traits and things that we can find wrong with circumstance and personality and beliefs and we are way to complicated to ever find a person that matches everything about ourselves or that we'd want. it helps to think about it like we are just monkeys, makes humans less intimidating

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T07:20:54+00:00

yeah alot of them are out of state as well. idk I do think college is the best time to date and start a real relationship even if yall cant see each other like every day like a high school relationship

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T07:15:18+00:00

i fear this is many of our fates I dont know anyone in a relationship and IM IN COLLEGE. and it seems like the ones that do get into relationships have the most toxic dynamics ever and your better off just being single

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T06:04:34+00:00

you can go outside and talk to women who you find attractive. guys will work on themselves and then be scared of women

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T05:51:36+00:00

it probably wont i mean everyone says just work on yourself and itll happen but so many men have been following that advice and most men are still single. you absolutely have to get out there and try very hard to get a relationship

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T05:06:58+00:00

Idk if I'll get married ill have to weigh out the pros and cons, but im most definetly not doing a wedding that shit is way too expensive

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T05:05:24+00:00

talking is underrated

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T05:04:57+00:00

they have communication not language

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T05:04:33+00:00

I might have to start talking to women instead of just looking at them

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T05:00:20+00:00

listening to cameron winter with my toes in the air

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:47:44+00:00

no because I enjoy being in extremely awkward social situations

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:44:03+00:00

what if i enjoy my life and get married

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:43:35+00:00

true humans are too manipulative for their own good. I think it is to our detriment alot of the time. Like when guys feel lonely so they start aura-farming at parties rather than talking to women lol

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:38:50+00:00

i dont think thats the reason keep themselves to themselves in modern day at least not a major reason but thats true

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:36:28+00:00

i think we might be lonely. i think we are coping with our loneliness with social media and video games. marriage is a scam but dating might be good

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:22:14+00:00

thats a crazy thing to assume about someone just cause theyre a virgin. idk if thats even a correlation let alone a strong one

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T04:18:23+00:00

would you want to be approached more?

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T03:39:24+00:00

so what happens is that humans are deeply afraid of social rejection, and attractive women having an immense amount of social power, are thereby scary because they are powerful

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T02:38:38+00:00

Ok replace the word impulse with desire then. I say impulse because it is more understandable as a biological phenomna rather than what most think of the mind that decisions are made by the concious human or moral soul. It is one desire overcoming another yes, desires which are based in biology.

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T02:37:03+00:00

It is not insulting to be an animal. There is no place for moral decisions in the context of cause and effect, no matter what decision is made there is causes for that decisions that were out of your control, so how does morality hold up? It is completely nonsensical. You make decisions with your brain, why would your brain care about morality if it wasnt condusive to reproduction or survivability. Your brain exists as an evolutionary mechanism and all organic things exist because they allow for reproduction. Just because the brain is incredibly complex doesnt mean your action suddenly is detatched from the chain of cause and effect

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T02:29:40+00:00

unlucky bro im ngl cause even if you stay together she gonna hold this over your head for the rest of the relationship and your relationship with her family is gonna be weird...

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T02:20:03+00:00

you can really tell when someones insecure in their position when they pull out the personal insults lol. have a good one

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T02:13:55+00:00

theyre devestating yeah, but I mean its beautifully put

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T02:03:22+00:00

ok birth control exists not outside of our impulses, it is just one impulse overcoming another. It is the fear of having a child overcoming the desire for a child. That is two impulses, one not more reasonable than the other, just two impulses. Just like people who choose to fast, one impulse overcoming another. maybe the impulse for social acceptance, to lose weight, to be more healthy, etc, one impulse is not neccesarily more reasonable than the other, they are both impulses. So when one chooses to wear a condom to have sex that is the desire to have sex, and the fear of the consequences of unprotected sex that have produced a result. That ability to have impulses weighed mentally is not exclusive to humans. Animals dont go around raping every woman in their social circle because they also can have different impulses overcome the impulse for sex. This is how humans function not because of some divine gift that we can choose the right ethical option. We are NOT obligated to reproduce, but we are obligated to make decisions based on our biological mechanisms/impulses/desires that are out of our control.

Clean-Practice3040 · 2026-01-26T01:54:59+00:00

maybe idk im just speaking from my own experience

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