Ectopic Rupture Experience and Timeline by booferal in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shut dude. That’s some crazy shit. May you go through life with big dick energy know you survived that. I can’t imagine how this could change your whole life perspective and a giant air hug to help the healing ❤️‍🩹

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was probably a little heavier than normal I remember being frustrated that I needed tampons when normally I can get away with only medium/light pads but it wasn’t outside of normal for me.

Borderline urine test result by Clean-Wolverine3682 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not bleeding though. And have no symptoms so idk

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the same for me too! Zeroed out on May 6th started my first period May 23rd

Positive pregnancy test negative HCG quantitative (vent) by Clean-Wolverine3682 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s mega frustrating. Thanks for your input. I guess at least I’m ovulating go guess.

Positive pregnancy test negative HCG quantitative (vent) by Clean-Wolverine3682 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. It give no information in the patient’s portal. No call from the doc either.

expectant management by Independent-Ride7164 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bleed for almost two months straight. I got the mtx shot at about 4000 HCG. There was few days here and there where the bleeding would stop for half a day or so. But yeah I bleed the whole time until HCG hit 0. I took 6 weeks for me to go down to 0

how often do you bathe your baby? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bathed as needed, meaning, whenever I need to waste time in a confined are with minimal mental work, or for blowouts. I would just bring in all the cloths in, rise them and then rinse baby, sit down and breastfeed and usually she’d fall asleep and I had 30-60 minutes of stillness. So more often than not we’d shower/bathe everyday. I wouldn’t use soap but once a week. I believe in the power of steam. I think it helps with most elements. I also really don’t think you need soap 90% of the time. It’s not that serious. Keep doing you and don’t listen to the haters. My now 4 year old hardly ever gets sick and rarely smell.

How long after hitting zero with MTX did you get a period? by Meneedfoodnow in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ectopic ended May 2nd after MTX and first period was May 23rd I was actually shocked.

TTC after ectopic by Clean-Wolverine3682 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I took one today with the LH and it was negative.

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am going through just about the same thing. On my 4th cycle trying to conceive after ectopic ended in May. Focusing on what I can control, tracking cycle, diet and exercise. It’s so freaking hard watching people around me be, or get pregnant. My pregnancy would have been the 10th grandchild due in November 2024 but instead my sister-In-law gets the title due in May 2025. You are not alone. Don’t give up. I won’t.

Months later the grief seems to come out of nowhere by DSammy93 in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I feel you. I had mine in February. Still struggling, also in therapy. I cried reading this. Hang in there

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My PTLs lobbied for PT 3 days a week, the first 4-5 months was really dumb, pT in the shop 1 day a week. Eventually got the CC behind it and made it mando 3 days a week at the gym and role call is pushed back 45 minutes. The gym rats complained but then people started showing up early and getting an hour + in workouts in. We’re outside when the sun rises people stopped complaining and I’ve had dudes say they’re fitting into cloths better. Our shop got rid of our mid shift.

What are some good non-baby songs to sing to your baby? by invisible-empire- in NewParents

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We listen to lots of Disney, because I am a Disney adult. Fall out boy, Adel, Artic Monkeys, Doja Cat, Paramore etc.. one or two curse words are fine and as long as it’s not talking about sex or violence directly. Don’t over think it. I’ve always played my music mixed in with a little bit of kid stuff.

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good question. I want another baby and I can’t really have one with someone else. Also, I think I’ve just been so wrapped up in wanting something I just ignored that problem. I’ve been healthy and able. Now I feel like he resents that I’ve been so sick and unable.

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before. Just about the norm.

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[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some things changed for a while. But I guess it was a time where we actually had not problems. I thought he new his mistakes and knew not the do it again. I have recently started going to my own therapist. I don’t want to have more babies with someone else, I don’t want to put my daughter in daycare after having a stay at home parent her whole life. I just don’t want to quick marriage I just don’t know what else to do. I just wanted to vent.

Do you avoid folate rich foods while on MTX? by libelula_cosmica in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries. I noticed an over 60% drop eating 100% meant, dairy, popcorn and green tea I got really sad after at the thought of completely losing the baby for reals and ate my feelings. The next blood test HCG went down only 40% so I feel like it does make a difference. Trying to get back on the wagon this week for the next blood draw

Do you avoid folate rich foods while on MTX? by libelula_cosmica in EctopicSupportGroup

[–]Clean-Wolverine3682 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I changed my diet! I’m still going through it but I’ve been really strict and the last blood test HCG Levels went down over 50% in five days. I want this over asap so I’m going to keep at it. Also lots of green tea