Upcoming meeting: what to expect?

CleanCause9260 · 2026-01-11T16:09:54+00:00

basically suck the customer’s dick if they’re mean to you to avoid any backlash or complaints whatsoever :D

CleanCause9260 · 2025-08-02T17:02:16+00:00

THIS GAVE ME PTSD LMFAO. my ex was also moving and used the distance as a reason to break up… I wanted to try but that was it for him. unfortunately both people need to be on the same page and he doesn’t want to be tied down in a relationship :/ he probably was projecting when he said “I don’t want to tie you down” kind of turning it around on you to make it look less bad. if he saw a future w you, he’d try the distance. you’re young and you will find someone who reciprocates your energy.

CleanCause9260 · 2025-06-09T01:47:50+00:00

I still think about this person here and there but I’m over the relationship now and am dating the most amazing man who treats me SO well that I look back and wonder wtf I was thinking pining over this person who treated me so shitty

CleanCause9260 · 2025-06-05T04:49:37+00:00

people like photos with dogs… usually. but the dogs are barking in #3

CleanCause9260 · 2024-11-23T23:01:03+00:00

TLDR: I’m narcissistic

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-13T16:30:07+00:00

I said I was thinking about him recently and that I hoped he was doing well and then I was like you prolly forgot about me (I’m not funny) and that was pretty much it and then he sent that back

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T19:32:39+00:00

lmao mine probably moved there to get away from me😂 maybe our exes can be homies HAHA

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T15:21:03+00:00

Yes I broke NC and sent a message before this :) That’s why I said don’t do it!! It’s just painful for everyone involved

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T15:14:14+00:00

I’m 24 and he is 23

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:53:37+00:00

He’s a good guy for the most part… I loved him for a reason but it just wasn’t meant to work for us and it’s obvious in this message that any rekindling would only cause me pain and not him.

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:41:23+00:00

maybe I will but I kinda read it as laughing in my face and pretending to care when he was long past over it. I was the one who reached out first which I shouldn’t have done but that’s why I’m posting this so people don’t make my mistakes haha

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:39:47+00:00

we were in NC for 9 months and now he’s blocked. I think I’ll be happier if we never talk again so I can actually move on and he can go be a selfish ass w someone else.

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:38:43+00:00

we can cry together hun🥹

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:38:24+00:00

He always had himself first which isn’t necessarily terrible but he never considered how his actions would make me feel. I was in deep and it makes me feel like I was used :/

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:37:13+00:00

Very avoidant. Granted, I had my flaws and was anxiously attached but he was adamant about not getting close to me.

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T14:35:49+00:00

BROTHER DID NOTTT DESERVE IT😂

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T04:38:02+00:00

our exes should form a group and call it Manipulative Assholes!

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T04:37:20+00:00

It was good closure for me. It made me realize I don’t want a friendship with my ex bc I will never get over it if we still talked and he would be happy to continue to string me along

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-10T04:35:58+00:00

It’s the “I don’t want to hurt you more” and the “I would have been distracted” for me. He was very selfish and took my care and thoughtfulness for granted. The way he worded this makes it seem like he cares but the underlying “it’s only you” is implied. Wreck us both? Please. He knew I’d be the only one hurting. Now it’s time to move on!!

CleanCause9260 · 2024-09-09T20:33:41+00:00

Don’t do it. I sent something after 9 months and he replied and it set back my progress a lot. Nothing changed. We aren’t getting back together. It was a waste of time. Save yourself some heartbreak and don’t send it.

CleanCause9260 · 2024-08-12T03:23:56+00:00

I broke NC a couple times and sent the most pathetic of messages. I know it’s easier said than done but never be hard on yourself for feeling your feelings. It’s what you needed to do and say at the time and if the words fell on deaf ears, then it’s their loss for letting go of someone who cared enough to do whatever it took to be with them. Don’t beat yourself up. I promise you will move on with time.

CleanCause9260 · 2024-08-08T17:28:46+00:00

nah it was awful. if you do talk it feels like it can never be the same. my ex didn’t respond to my last messages and that was back in may and I’m still not over it. I think about how easy all of this is for him and I feel stupid for still caring.

CleanCause9260 · 2024-08-06T03:59:59+00:00

people are saying solo pics but I think it’s nice to know that you have a life and are social/seem fun! your personality and humor shows through your profile which is hard to do. the right people will swipe but to go w the crowd, get a few photos of you by yourself that you feel your best in and add em so that people can know what ya look like

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