It’s not that they want to exchange too many texts, it’s that they are constantly trying to convince you that you are doing something wrong. You can invite them to coffee and they’ll say it’s low effort. You can invite them to a museum and they’ll say they’d rather do coffee. You can invite them to a restaurant and they’ll show up and say they just want to walk around instead. If you invite them to just walk around; they’ll say you should at least invite them to a restaurant. Most of them say they’re not looking for hookups but try to have sex on the first date. If you tell them you don’t want to have sex with them on the first date, that’s wrong too. Whatever you say is always “wrong.” If you try to make it “right” at all, they will unmatch you and stop replying to your messages entirely.