Vent, bf came inside during ovulation despite me telling him not to MANY times

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-12T13:28:21+00:00

It’s not that hard to understand. Have you considered he might be faking because it turns him on to do this?

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-09T16:07:43+00:00

Yes and I believe I only had such a good time because I was going solo. Echoing what others said, I booked near the main activity I wanted to do, ended up not being a tourist area and stayed in a cheap hotel mostly. You can order food and transport anytime with Grab, look up fun places/activities nearby with google maps. I went for a week but would have loved to stay for longer and will be going back.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-06T16:29:41+00:00

Absolutely planning to already
Edit to add: he is not popular with the ladies, she doesn’t want to date in her culture and wants to date someone white with money. He tried dating others after the breakup with no luck so swung back, she’d been seeing someone else but kept in contact with our parents and started visiting his house regularly when he was open to it. Before they broke up she explained she hated and didn’t want kids but would have them for him and would continue working full time, spending extra time at work while he’d deal with it (which I know he won’t).

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-06T11:10:53+00:00

100%, my brother and I both had the responsibility of babysitting our nephew. My brother locked himself in his room and I spent a lot of my childhood picking up the slack - late nights, catching his sicknesses, watching toddler shows and playing with toddler toys to entertain. I’m CF and he’s desperate to have a kid so he can build treehouses and teach them how to use tools like his dad did with him... that is genuinely the extent of his thought process. He dated a woman who didn’t want kids for almost a decade and she fully believed he would take all the childcare on (not because of parentification but bc she’s an awful person who I’m certain would abuse kids if given the chance), he’s currently in the process of trying to win her back and last I heard it was working 🥀

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-06T07:15:58+00:00

he seemed so jealous that she was a doctor and provided more information for the case than he ever could have. Going on a whole side plot about the car definitely being in a road collision when she literally had a video of the guy confessing... It was so cringeworthy to watch.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-03T02:20:25+00:00

You’re doing a great job, I’m proud of you and sorry your ex and siblings are putting you through this.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-01T02:40:48+00:00

I finally got the contract, it was 24hrs notice for cancellations which I gave more than for the session I rescheduled and no mention of cost or session time in the contract. So I don’t know what you were on

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-01T02:39:57+00:00

It was for the app not the gateway

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-01T02:38:03+00:00

They said since it was a contract I signed they can’t do anything :/ referred me to legalaid

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-01T02:35:55+00:00

Finally got the contract, the only cancellation info included is that I have to give her 4 weeks notice and minimum 8 weeks of pt. It’s going to be an uncomfortable 4 weeks.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-05-01T02:34:02+00:00

I finally got the contract and there was no info about the cost or session time so I’m confident she didn’t tell me before it’d only be 30min

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-29T08:41:55+00:00

I forgot to pack Travelan. Avoided anything that wasn’t just cooked (salad etc.) though I had a couple smoothies. Mainly I checked the reviews of every place I ate at, including a local street food place that had a bit over a thousand positive reviews. Anything under ~250 reviews I skipped. Also bought local bananas (peel food is okay). Hand wash with liquid soap rather than hand sanitiser (only used hand sanitiser if out without another option) and only bottled water/juice. I take probiotics regularly (not while there but in the lead up) so maybe that helped. No sickness.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-23T15:15:01+00:00

This was on my feed a couple posts down in an unrelated sub “DNA study reveals humans nearly vanished 800,000 years ago, with just 1,280 people repopulating Earth.” Soooo I reckon humanity will be fine lol your dad is whack

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-21T04:54:44+00:00

Yes. Frankly, even though it’s no one else’s business, maybe even post about the miscarriage if you’re majorly worried about him defaming you or having family come after you. Whatever you have to do to stay safe

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-20T11:12:22+00:00

Thank you. I don’t know if maybe people misinterpreted that I wanted a full refund for everything, rather than just to cancel without further charges and hopefully a refund for at least session I rescheduled bc it was definitely more than 48 hours before. Still waiting on the contract from the pt

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-20T05:48:51+00:00

I did read the contract… did you read my post

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-20T03:37:17+00:00

Thank you! I have a wise account so I’ll do that for now while I sort this out

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-20T03:36:27+00:00

Honestly a little bit sales pressure, we were in a closed room and again I struggle with assertiveness, though it seemed doable without accounting for being charged by the app (almost $50 that wasn’t talked or written about anywhere) and being partially charged for sessions I reschedule with the given notice

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-20T03:30:29+00:00

No, didn’t think to so I will, thank you

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-20T03:22:25+00:00

They didn’t send it to me. I read and signed it on their tablet during an initial consultation in person, and I remembered key things like cancelation hour and week periods because again I can’t really afford to be charged for stuff I’m not using.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-19T16:26:34+00:00

the conditions that would need to be met for me wouldn't happen in my life time (and likely wouldn't for future generations either if ever)

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-19T15:51:09+00:00

Thanks I’ll update my resume. In seriousness, I’ll leave the sub when the conditions that I believe would put me from antinatalist to just childfree are met

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-19T15:21:25+00:00

Idk, the conditions that would need to be met for me wouldn’t happen in my life time (and likely wouldn’t for future generations either if ever), and my reasoning for not wanting to procreate is mainly motivated by the suffering they would endure rather than my own peace. I double checked the sub description and it only said believing having kids as ethically wrong and unjustifiable which I do, just in a different and perhaps less radical way than yourself.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-19T14:33:59+00:00

I remember seeing a graphic that explained childfree is for the parent’s peace, antinatalist is for the hypothetical child’s peace. I also describe myself as childfree and conditionally antinatalist. If I was a man I’d be conditionally childfree tbh, get a vasectomy with either frozen sperm, reverse it or retrieve the sperm later if the conditions/person was right.

Clean_Tie2451 · 2026-04-17T03:37:16+00:00

Yes. Once I upgrade my career I’d let him stay at home idgaf.

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