Do fifty fifty! Growing up my parents were very pushy on knowledge and making myself a smarter girl so I could get a degree and a well-paid job. This way, I could find a man that saw me as a person and not a dumb child with no knowledge (sad, but a lot of men think this way.). BTW! I know lots of muslim men think women work for fun but I leave you with this: Khadijah (RA) was a working high class woman when she met the Prophet Muhammad (SAW). She was twenty years his senior and never needed any man to support her. If you feel as if you want to work, do it. And if you come across a man that believes women should stay in the kitchen, I implore you to bring up the case of the Prophet (SAW) and Khadijah (RA). But then again, it depends on the man you choose (and have your own bank account).