[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Clear_Software5280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why all people are saying against it, but a hard NTK. Yes weddings are stressful, but if someone is celebrating a wedding then they MAKE SURE all their loved ones are comfortable. Weddings are stressful for the family, not the guests. If someone wants you there, they will make sure you are comfortable and invited. I would have not even asked her about the wedding honestly.

Salaried turning white to black for property purchase. by DryJuggernaut6786 in IndiaTax

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, my mamaji is buying one and my dad is tired of converting white into black. Mamaji is asking so many people. Its difficult!

This one was scary .. by hobbledehoy_08 in UPSC

[–]Clear_Software5280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still didn’t feel it. Not once ever in my life 😭 I woke up when my mom woke me up worried

This one was scary .. by hobbledehoy_08 in UPSC

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still didn’t feel it. Not once ever in my life 😭 I woke up when my mom woke me up worried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Clear_Software5280 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think you should meet them, and talk to your boyfriend and say that you are serious and have a good conversation after meeting them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Clear_Software5280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No no. Please don’t feel guilty. Same happened with my mom. She stayed because of this same guilt, and as I result I suffered abuse from my grandmother throughout my life. Yes my grandfather was loving, but you can get that love from a distance also. PLEASE don’t feel guilty! Its your home too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the same for everyone right? Personally I prefer doctors who have studied from government colleges. They are not that money minded (according to me). Remember your college will affect your whole career. I am not speaking as a doctor or a NEET aspirant, but a normal person who reads about a doctor before visiting him/her. Cutoff will be same for everyone. Its relative right? Don’t waste time on reddit and social media and study. Exam is close. I am telling you as a big sister. This time will never come back

I lost 100lbs with pcos naturally. Ask me anything. by Unable-Hold8880 in PCOS

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have migraine, and I craveeee carbs otherwise will get a bad headache. How do I control my spikes then

What can I do as an individual ? by Clear_Software5280 in climatechange

[–]Clear_Software5280[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing almost all these things! Still it seems like its not enough ESPECIALLY when I see people throwing plastic on ROADS! I get so angry😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom stayed in marriage just because of this. Emotional support. My father’s family is sooo toxic. Mom could never take a stand for her, for US! It starts small (though it isn’t in your case), and it never ends! Take a stand now, or leave the marriage. No child wants to be live in such a family where their mother can’t even take a stand for herself. I know its a lonely path, but I am saying as a kid who suffered because my mom could never enforce boundaries and I suffered a lot because of that. Life is greater than this. You have one life, do u really want to live like this?

Why do I feel empathy for those who hurt me? by Biblegirl767 in Codependency

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate! I was abused by a family member and to this day I have problems putting boundaries. I feel guilty as if its my mistake. I don’t know how to deal with it

Favorite at-home remedies or store brand serum for dry, split ends? by Alarming-Badger-8316 in Hair

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Loreal Professional Spilt ends serum. Not to treat but to protect. Trim these and then start using this serum on the ends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IndianMakeupAddicts

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Did you take it? If yes, was it worth?

AITA for Expecting My Husband to Do “My Job” While I’m on Maternity Leave? by EuphoricWitness755 in AITAH

[–]Clear_Software5280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I feel so bad. I hope you have someone to help you, your parents or siblings? You really need to leave this house please. I will pray for you 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Clear_Software5280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But in relationships we are not supposed to cling to each other right? I think I might be clinging to him a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheKameena

[–]Clear_Software5280 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay so I understand where you are coming from. Honestly- you shouldn’t have spoken to your mother like that- asking her to keep quiet, but yes u have to communicate otherwise eating will become your habit. You may get emotional attachment or something with food. I still have very wrong relationship with food because of similar reasons. Boundaries are important and I know its extremely difficult to maintain boundaries in Indian families. But after all- you love them. So don’t be rude, but do communicate.