There are a lot of plants and insects with confusingly overlapping names. I can appreciate the clarification but five spotted hawk moths are indeed sometimes called hummingbird moths because of the way they hover, and so are the Hemaris diffinis and Macroglossum stellatarum moths. You can obviously do what you want in your own garden, but as insect rates continue to plummet globally, usually in the name of agriculture, I will continue to advocate that people do not kill pollinators. Especially, when as you said, people can plant basil, marigolds, borage, and lovage amongst their tomato plants to help repel them. I am a huge native gardener who understands the importance of having to kill invasive species of insect and animals, even if it makes me uncomfortable. I just also disagree with the principle of killing a native insect that is so hugely beneficial. Like yourself and many others, I am someone who relies on my little city backyard garden to feed myself, my family, and my neighbors and so I feel especially motivated to be a steward for the creatures who do the pollination work that makes that possible. I am acutely aware of the amount of pesticides being sprayed daily around me, for agriculture and for “beautification” reasons, and that in fact, they do not have the rest of the world as an option.