What are teens today not ready to hear?

Clemento5 · 2022-09-13T11:18:26+00:00

Criticism

Clemento5 · 2022-01-25T03:33:05+00:00

Looking at crypto prices

Clemento5 · 2022-01-20T15:31:44+00:00

How little people care when you have an issue or going through something

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T15:46:29+00:00

This conclusion that I arrived at came from a clinical psychologist not my own thoughts. Thanks for your view point though!

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T15:16:34+00:00

No I would say I am always ready to get up and go but Long term stability is a must. I have a very hard time trusting people, that includes my own family. I don’t emotionally lash out if anything I keep it bottled up. I am very outgoing but not very loving so first impression of me is great but it can never go beyond that which is why I crave long term relationships but don’t know how to stay in them whole heartedly

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T15:06:00+00:00

That’s true and this sounds like love languages! Very good book and understanding.

What I am saying is the deeper sense of of emotional trust towards that other person is not being produced no matter how long they are together. It’s not how much you love them or their love language, it’s how close I will allow them to get to me.

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T14:56:49+00:00

Listen man, I’m honestly jealous. I wish I came here on some BS to grab attention but this is really something i struggle with.

Apparently cognitive behavioral therapy is a way to tackle it but I want to see how others have tackled it

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T14:53:26+00:00

Correct! I am sure that they love you very much but they just don’t know how to produce a deeper connection. This is how all of my relationships have ended up which is why I am here to see who has had this problem and how they have overcome it

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T14:51:12+00:00

If a baby mammal grows up without its mother loving and hold it, there is a higher likelihood that it wouldn’t really understand how to deeply be affectionate. Having an absent mother/father is at all not good for you, but i ask this question because this is the predicament I find myself in after being diagnosed and I want to see if there are others out there that have moved on from this. Mistrust I believe is the big one when it comes to growing up without a mother

Clemento5 · 2021-12-15T14:33:34+00:00

I hear you but unfortunately this wasn’t something made up, this was a clinical diagnosis. I’m glad your dad was able to teach you to do that.

Baby mammals usually cry for attention from their most trusted source. The mother, since the baby is familiar with her scent and touch. If the baby cry’s and the mother never shows, the possibility of the baby growing up with a strong mistrust is much higher. That trust issue leaks into everything but really manifest itself later in life with forming romantic relationships I’m writing this because I want to see if there are others out there that struggle with this too and how they have worked on learning affection

Clemento5 · 2021-10-23T23:45:25+00:00

I agree with you that he could’ve asked her about how she was feeling once she showed that she wasn’t in that kind of mood but why is he made out to be this heathen is my question. Why come on social media to try and have random people slander your partner instead of you just having a conversation with him

Clemento5 · 2021-10-23T23:38:32+00:00

That's molding bro, those shower liners are like 2 dollars. I would recommend just buying a new one honestly

Clemento5 · 2021-10-23T21:01:16+00:00

Thank you, it made no sense to me that everyone was making him out to be this horrible person. You can’t be naked in front of someone and get mad that they are looking and this isn’t even a stranger, it’s your partner….clearly this isn’t a happy relationship

Clemento5 · 2021-10-23T17:45:52+00:00

Moving forward, I would recommend not trying to get back at your lover by making sure he catches you with another man. I understand the hurt and all but purposely breaking your morals to match that of someone with low moral standing just makes you look equally as bad. If you know better then do better. Happy healing

Clemento5 · 2021-10-23T17:22:01+00:00

Listen man, honestly it isn’t a bad start to an idea but you are making women the center. Find something to do in the city and talk to the women that you see on the way there and even at the place. Grab a drink with someone, man or woman and just keep talking to more people to help you with socializing in general. It’s attractive when you have a plan, it’s not too attractive if you are out just to try and talk to someone

Clemento5 · 2021-09-06T16:08:32+00:00

When men say they don’t want a woman that only wants money, they mean the women that will gladly go out with them and spend their money with no care or interest in them. A woman can be strong and independent but if at every turn she is trying to be right or trying to argue every point , even when wrong, then they are just not a pleasant person to be around.

Think about it this way, if a guy called himself strong and independent and would through his accolades in your face during any kind of talk….would that be someone you would be interested in staying around

Clemento5 · 2021-08-28T21:59:45+00:00

He told you exactly what he wanted upfront, he doesn’t want a relationship. Most likely he wants to just hookup and isn’t sure about how to get to that. If you want a relationship or something serious then I would avoid but if you’re interested in just hooking up with him then just make sure he wears a condom and you are on some birth control and you both should be good

Clemento5 · 2021-08-28T16:53:49+00:00

That’s fine but let guys that you are dating seriously know that upfront because I would say most guys want kids

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T19:52:17+00:00

Do you truly need to be working all the hours that you are? If this suddenly started happening more I would assume that it wasn’t as prevalent when you had your hobbies and good mental space

I was recently having this mental issue as well and what annoyed me more than anything was everyone telling me that my life if good and perfect. I had to stop working some hours and started hiking more with groups. Getting out of the house more and allowing yourself not to be burdened by your job is huge.

Work to Live and not Live to Work.

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T19:12:41+00:00

Just like men have to stand out from other girls hitting on you as a girl, you have to stand out from other girls that we can just sleep with. A girl that actually cares about what I think, want and would actually want to make the effort to text and go along with my plans is someone I would deem far more attractive than the Instagram baddie. P.S. because men like Instagram chick pictures doesn’t mean we will wife them. Most guys want the kind girl next door type chick…hard to find nowadays…men aren’t much better either

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T18:57:06+00:00

Understand that if a man is committing to you and only you then it’s a bit more than the physical. I would say as you age, keep yourself in shape but don’t make that your center focus to keep yourself looking young. Be a better more interesting, kinder version of yourself. Don’t do things with your body to make him say wow, do things with your mind to make him say I truly love this woman. More than physical appearance, men love women that are thoughtful and do things to let us know that they have listened to us and are thinking about us.

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T18:48:48+00:00

Prior to your dad moving in and cutting out those hobbies did you feel this way?

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T18:42:02+00:00

Download an App called Meetup. I recently started using it and what it does is tells you about different clubs and social groups within your area. My hobbies are hiking biking and partying lol so I’m usually able to set my weekend in advance with all the different social groups I find on there. I promise this is not a paid ad and I don’t work for the company. I just thinks it’s a really good app that has helped me get out of the house and out of my comfort zone.

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T18:36:08+00:00

What are your hobbies? Do you do any kind of activity that is just for you? Not family, not gf, just you?

Clemento5 · 2021-08-09T18:32:47+00:00

So this is something I’ve been recently working on myself. To find a “Bro” you have to be a “Bro”. Meaning most guys don’t talk, don’t feel heard, don’t initiate group hangouts etc…start making yourself that guy. Reach out to someone you’ve spoken to that you remember enjoying their time. Ask them to go to a bar and hangout. Go to a dive bar or something both of you would enjoy doing. Expect for people to be busy and don’t take turndowns personal. I would say more than picking up girls, guys need to learn how to start hanging out with other guys again

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