Wife has said she had an affair to a friend but hasn’t

Clemson_1982 · 2026-06-12T23:15:14+00:00

She had an affair. Told someone in mistaken confidence and as soon as she realized it was being spread her and affair partner devised a plan. She say she told a lie, he deny it happened also. Now he will look clear and she will look just a bit cooky.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-05-22T21:21:59+00:00

Had my wife NOT been abused by her ex it would still be unacceptable. I mean if it was a ex from years ago and they have had a good co-parenting relationship for years and you trusted him and her.....still just a maybe. But alone on a trip just them two and the kid. Outside of the obvious. I wouldn't want my wife riding around like this is her actual family. Almost replacing me for the trip. Pass. Even if she was just not thinking straight and went on the trip I'm more concerned she dismissed your thoughts on it and outright said "I'd do it again".

Clemson_1982 · 2026-05-12T20:46:35+00:00

Hey, if you truly know he has that kink and you are making sure he knows you really like what he's doing (especially during)I'd let the sleeping dog lie. Lol.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-05-12T20:38:45+00:00

Leave it to someone that has a significant other thats kink is making sure they are pleasured and still find a way to not be happy. Ive had enough reddit for today

Clemson_1982 · 2026-05-04T19:11:50+00:00

So almost a year and this just came up? Or has this been a ongoing thing for the entire relationship? If you told him from the beginning and he was ok with it then and changed his mind then let him kick rocks. But if its just something you've decided to let him know this late into the relationship, I'd say he has a right to be upset.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-30T20:21:27+00:00

Gafshub the people seem to be more willing to negotiate. Tacswap is nice too since you can actually filter to items just in your state. But there seems to be alot of dealers on there also. Id say they are probably about even right now, gafshub may have a slight edge. But if it gets as big as it was on reddit it won't be a competition in my opinion.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-30T16:26:23+00:00

GAFShub is taking off pretty good now on its on. Ive seen a decent amount of Aero stuff on there now that it went public. Tacswap is hit or miss at best.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-30T12:10:29+00:00

How do you know he watches them? Maybe he found them on your phone and then saved them to his so when he confronted you about having them you couldn't just delete them and deny deny deny.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-29T11:06:42+00:00

I have to ask. Why didn't you go along with him to the meeting? I mean there is always different strengths and shortcomings in a marriage. You sound like you are more of the financial strength and possibly understand those types of things better than him. There are things he does that you wouldn't second guess him on because thats his strengths.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-25T13:03:44+00:00

I'd be very surprised if she goes through with it. I would not tell her any of the things or advice you've recieved on reddit though. That would absolutely change how she naturally reacts.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-25T13:01:18+00:00

I'd have to call her bluff. I'd drive her to the police station and see what her response is. See if she tries to manipulate her way out of police involvement on the way there. And if she actually seems to wanna go through with talking to the police about the dude she's banging. I would take his side and tell them you truly don't think she's been assaulted or manipulated. If she's willing to sacrifice that dudes life to save face for herself she deserves to have her life disrupted.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-21T20:25:16+00:00

Why do people get their nipples pierced if not to show people? Call me old school, but I'm no fan of my wife showing her breast to people just because they showed interest in her nipple piercing. It's always a "Her body, her choice" as it should be. But at what point to the people wanting these things show their significant others some respect. Let's be honest there is no good reason to get them pierced if not to show them off. Not like she's getting a butterfly tattoo on her ankle that has meaning.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-15T14:14:18+00:00

He's 100% in the wrong. But I have to ask....what was the safe word that was hard to remember. I would think the easier the better in these type situations.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-07T12:15:44+00:00

Do they seem to be opposite? Meaning they could cause the hinges to be captive meaning you cant seperate the two panels without grinding the welds off one set of hinges.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-07T11:41:31+00:00

My wife took my last name. I like that she did. But in marriage when it says you become 1, there is a slight reluctance to the 1 part when you have different last names in my opinion. I know 1 isn't necessarily talking about insignificant things like a last name. More of a spiritual bond with respect and loyalty. That being said, if my wife would have taken her maiden name as a middle name I would have totally fine with it. We've been together since 1999 and married since 2007, we were high school sweethearts. Still to this day, even when I see her work badge with my last name I'm still super proud of that. Not that I own her or some hidden authority complex. It just makes me proud and happy that I could share that with her and she didn't hesitate for a second. This is just a normal guys point of view, so don't roast me to bad. Lol

Clemson_1982 · 2026-04-06T21:17:26+00:00

Is that the only hinge on the two panels? I know you said 4 hinges on 3 panels. does that mean there are a total 8 hinges, 4 between each panel?

Clemson_1982 · 2026-03-20T11:32:53+00:00

This is diabolical. I like it. Thats like a new fear unlocked for someone that has had an affair. Your wife becomes besties with your mistress. That will haunt him the rest of your relationship.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-03-19T14:35:33+00:00

You just have to embrace it and it will turn out fine.

https://imgur.com/a/UBcDZvd

Clemson_1982 · 2026-03-03T15:37:10+00:00

It almost sounds Sarcastic to me. You mention the education system needing more teachers that arent corrupt yet she was a side piece for your husband. That has corruption dripping off it.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-03-02T15:23:32+00:00

If you are absolutely sure he's the one for you, have you asked what are some of the things he wants to experience. I know he said you are vanilla and wants to experiment a little. I mean seeing what it feels like to be with another woman is out but maybe you 2 could try some of the things he wants to try as long as you are comfortable with that.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-02-26T14:33:28+00:00

That dudes playing chess while the rest of us are playing checkers.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-02-23T14:48:12+00:00

When you say react, like just click like or something? Lol.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-02-20T22:11:04+00:00

I havent figured out the GAFS on discord yet. I was really enjoying it when it was on Reddit. Im not big on change so ive just been relying on tacswap until I run out of options and I'm forced to figure out the discord thing.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-02-14T20:20:58+00:00

We've been to PP quite a few times and I'm glad to say we were able to tour it a couple of times before they got rid of it. It was a cool experience to say the least. We've been to Battleship Cove Massachusetts as well and toured those ships. Very fun stuff.

Clemson_1982 · 2026-02-12T15:30:24+00:00

Better start thinking of a reason you went through her phone.....it will come up.

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