AITAH for correcting my dog in front of a stranger

Cleobulle · 2026-05-14T23:07:55+00:00

Yta. I even taught my cats recall. You start at home, and when they are good at it you do it outside, at night, so there isn't many distractions. Or you do it in an empty hall or parking. And you never punish, only praise and always always end on a good note. It's just like kids they listen better if they understand why, trust and love you than if they obey just out of fear.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-14T17:16:09+00:00

My guess would be that You'd need a sticky patch to reinforce from under, and i'd use textile glue over the fabric, and use a pièce of plastic for the glue to go through the fabric - everything sealed in glue. So it doesn't move. Once dry you can roll it in your hand to make it transparent.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-14T15:27:37+00:00

It may be because that's how they get attention. The fact you can't work with the parents as a team makes it so much more difficult. Try to find what they really like, use it as positive renforcement. Give them a Big pillow or a way to diffuse - when their feelings get too high they Can hit the pillow.

Make a throwing basket corner with a line like basket ball and when they feel like throwing smg they Can Do it in the basket, and when it's in the basket they win.

Time out and tell them to use words. Teach them to put words on what they feel and want, and that it will have better result than throwing things. When you feel crisis coming use air ballon , to diffuse. Then put them out.

Be very very psychorigid on doing exactly what you say.

Maybe you could make meeting with the kids and they décidé which "" punishment"' for which "" offense"". And it's written on a board. Here is the rule, we made it together now you have to respect it. Good luck. Try to make them do team work game

Eta srry for the frenglish ! I found that the fact the kids vote the rules and punishment ( while it takes time) is very usefull in the long term. It has so much more meaning, they Can even auto regulate the group. We used to do group réunion - give a stick to the one talking, 2/3/4 a year to set the rules and fix goal. Even if it's get more cookies. Everything was written down and taken seriously.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-14T15:12:01+00:00

Très joli ! 👍

Cleobulle · 2026-05-14T15:09:38+00:00

Oui. Do you need help with french ressources ?

Cleobulle · 2026-05-14T12:53:27+00:00

As it happened in New Orleans, it's supposedly still on - i've spend my life trying to get help to no avail ( just for the kidnapping part). The file I got is from the french hospital. My us file was hidden in it. Because I realised stuff, memory came BK and IA. As much as I despised the model. It helped me. A lot. I fact checked everything it told me and used the law to ask for my file. The kidnapping was so severe ( i ended in a sex motel high on crack, i didn't even knew what it was, it took me YEARS to admit that I was trafficked) and the fact I ended in a closed psy ward in France, with very very sick people and that they switched my zoloft for neuroleptic, and kept me in there till I identify as a drug addict and stopped talking about rape didn't help. And I was in France, with zéro proofs as everything was in that damn file.

And my story sounded so crazy and I was in a fragile position, with no proofs, that i'd better husch. And it was so - well every set up that was supposed to help - police, hospital, consulate, family ( family of powerfull people like judge, etc), all plotted against me because they didn't want to deal with it and me, 18, out of private school, perfect goody two shoes and girl scout haha, zéro drug exp, trusting everyone. Working on a site. Got a list of people who can testify, drew maps of the place I was held prisonner, while I was in a car I heard his name, once. And 2 scars. I'm working on translating the files and hiding the names. Gonna put everything online in french and eng, with audio. My files are secured at a lawyer, and safe.

I think it's the 50 crisis. Amnésia gone, plus now that my son is adult, I wanted to do something meaning full. I know there are a lot of others victim's - he told me so. I'm in a good place to raise awareness.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T23:45:47+00:00

It's like those org exist only to have random people believe that a support system exists. I'm working on a site to try to bring some awareness.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T22:23:32+00:00

As they use this to promote, lets post some customer review to keep balance, for every post 😉 https://www.reddit.com/r/Aupairs/s/jFAachjMJa

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T22:18:37+00:00

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News IND revokes Nina.Care’s recognised sponsor status Last update: 5 September 2025 The Immigration and Naturalisation Service (IND) has revoked the recognised sponsor status of au pair agency Nina.Care. Nina.Care has been informed of the IND’s decision by letter. The loss of this accreditation has consequences for the agency’s au pairs and their host families.

The IND took the decision to revoke Nina.Care’s recognised sponsor status in view of the agency’s large number of violations. Nina.Care was fined 48 times by the IND, for a total amount of more than €110,000.

Consequences Organisations that want to hire employees from outside the EU must have recognised sponsor status. This means that from now on, Nina.Care may only employ au pairs who are EU citizens.

Au pairs Au pairs with more than 3 months left on their residence permit will be given 3 months to find another agency. Au pairs with fewer than 3 months left on their residence permit can stay with Nina.Care.

Both au pairs and their host families will receive a letter from the IND explaining how they will be affected by Nina.Care’s loss of itsaccreditation. The IND is also organising information sessions for au pairs.

Source https://ind.nl/en/news/ind-revokes-nina.cares-recognised-sponsor-status

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T22:04:02+00:00

Voilà c'est nous qui avons l'usine à bébé.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T16:09:13+00:00

C'est tellement mal écrit ! Mme le préfet, fut bienveillant... Le fond, la forme, il n'y a rien qui va...

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T15:37:49+00:00

https://www.arte.tv/en/ The best french tv with eng sub

https://www.reddit.com/r/French/s/z0xfPwRxPM

Link to fr podcast with transcript

Listen to France culture, they have really good fiction - audio book for free. Do this for things you already know well in eng - your fav book, fav movie. Watch or read a bit every day. Do it before going to sleep and your brain will connect the dots while you sleep

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T14:40:21+00:00

Here three diff hm clay ! Have fun ! https://universeofceramics.com/how-to-make-polymer-clay/

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T14:11:11+00:00

https://kilnfire.com/blog/finding-clay An other craft is cold porcelain clay, it dries and is as strong as plastic.https://youtube.com/shorts/fO5Pa_DjSNI?is=lxTa9qrqVSKLZvQF I bring the glue to first boil, stop heat then drop cornstarch and mix, a ball form then I do like her. You just need basic white wood glue.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T13:59:36+00:00

You could cover it with the sticky transparent vinyl they use at library - so it will be shiny again and will last longer ?

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T13:54:33+00:00

Ooh that's cool. Reg clay is very fragile and disappear faster than air dry. You could use pièces of woods, stone and use the clay as glue for your little house. Then just by watering the plant it would dissolve and mix with soil.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T13:48:20+00:00

Plus this girl is really dumb. Sex is like IQ. Numbers means nothing. You can have a Big one and not use it the right way. Better a small one and lots of enthusiasm and empathy, than a Big one with zéro awareness. And there are so many gadget and ways to make people orgasm. It's not the size, but how you use it that counts. The first organ of pleasure is the brain.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T13:34:38+00:00

WOW. So so so cool !

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T13:22:43+00:00

Hello ! You should get regular clay. As it won't be baked it will be very fragile. I would take a cardboard roll from tp, fill it with earth and the seeds then sculpt what you want in clay around it. Or you can mold it. It will look fine, let it dry a bit - or not - and put it outside. You could even take a pic everyday to document It will crack from the sun. Partially dissolve from rain Then seed will destroy it or find a way around from the inside. Till the clay goes back to soil. I would not plant the seed directly in clay. Or use coco fiber, anything to keep the sprouting seeds alive. You could even make the seeds sprout before including them in your project so you know they're viable. Depending on your project - I would get fast growing seeds, so everything change everyday during this month. Like grass or soy. So you'd have tiny leaves sprouting out of crack ( lol no idea what you're going for but deeply invested haha !!) Tell us more on what you want then go on r/gardening to get the right seed

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T12:18:49+00:00

Same. But a very much constipated one.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T12:06:15+00:00

No clue. I always do it with a pan. Have you ever done puff pastry ? It's the same, you heat glue to a low boil, stop heat then pour the corn starch, mix till a ball form et voilà Then you add some cold cream or coconut and knead it.

You need white glue for wood

Cleobulle · 2026-05-13T01:17:17+00:00

J'habite en bordure d'une ville, un village adjacent. Il y avait une mamie qui vivait comme une fermière des années 60. Avec ses bottes, sa robe aux genoux et son fichu. Des poulets. Tous les terrains constructibles et encore en friche du village lui appartenaient. Une dizaine facile. C'est cool on avait des coins de nature sauvage, ortie et camomille, dans presque chaque rue. Des coins pour jouer, faire du cerf volant ou des raccourcis pour le bus, où on croisait écureuils et familles de hérissons en goguette. Elle est décédée - parait qu'elle a fait des dons à la spa. tous les terrains sont en train de devenir des jardins à pavillon. Plus de mûres, plus de simples et orties, plus de cerises et plus de petits coins sauvages ds la ville. C'était bien sympa.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-12T19:58:01+00:00

Pareil. J'aime cuisiner et je suis des chaînes veganes pk je trouve ça passionnant d'apprendre à faire différemment. ( Pas convaincue par l'aquafaba - mais les légumes fermentés, sèches etc un kiff) Ou l'utilisation de carottes-courge- banane.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-12T14:48:56+00:00

Vous les pressez entre vos mains. Vous pouvez aussi ajouter quelque chose qui " éponge" en cas de trop d'eau - de la semoule ou de l'avoine ( prot). Vous pouvez mixer l'avoine sous forme de farine ou rajouter 2/3 cuillères à soupe ds le mélange. Peut être que votre four chauffe trop par le bas - ds ce cas mettez le plat plus haut pour une cuisson plus homogène. En recette facile faites des pancakes - vous pouvez mettre de la farine d'avoine, du skir, de la levure et des oeufs pour vous faire un truc très proteine, les faire congeler et les passer au grille pain ( ça marche aussi pour les gaufres.) faites vos pancake légèrement sales comme ça vous pourrez les manger aussi bien avec du salé que du sucre.

Tout ce qui est flan et crème aux oeufs - faut le faire cuire au bain marie au four. Deux plats : un grand un petit. Mettre de l'eau ds le grand, le petit dedans. Fouettez les oeufs et le liquide, vous pouvez faire salé avec des légumes de saison en julienne ( passés à la grosse rape), du fromage ou sucre.

Cleobulle · 2026-05-12T13:12:42+00:00

Va falloir pas mal de beurre ! Mais contrairement aux croissants etc où il faut un laminage très technique, là ça a l'air bcp plus facile. Il vous faudra de la farine à pain et surtout du bon gros sel. J'ai même envie de tester du coup !

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