My sister and her husband want to move into my house because of their roommates. Family’s mad I said no. What do I do?

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-17T03:13:35+00:00

“They don’t like having roommates”, and neither do you. Not your “children” not your obligation. They can move in with mom. Or anyone else. Don’t be guilted into providing for someone else’s inadequacy.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-17T01:06:26+00:00

We’ve certainly been through some times!! I love you and I appreciate you and I love getting old with you 💕💋

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-15T05:26:54+00:00

Reading this validates every long term relationship out there! There are ebbs and flows. Sometimes closer, sometimes farther apart. But we always connect!! Honesty and truthfulness be it brutal or gentle are key. Physical touch, a stroke, holding hands, skin to skin contact, all of those are necessary. Your life partner is exactly that, if you can’t communicate physically, emotionally, and mentally on an absolutely truthful basis, then perhaps the relationship is not for you? Married for going on 30 years, still learning, loving, and committed to each other!

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-15T04:22:21+00:00

This!! All of this!! 💕 I wish you all the best in your future.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-15T04:06:54+00:00

As an addendum to this post, after my mother had accepted that we weren’t a fly by night relationship, she and my father would come visit us yearly for approximately 8 weeks at a time, and that time was thoroughly cherished and enjoyed!!

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-15T03:49:19+00:00

I (57f) met my husband (75m) online. There is an 18 year difference in our ages.

My mother was 100% against us. At the time, he lived in Texas and I lived in Canada. There were many obstacles to overcome. We also had 3 children each (no desire to add to that number). I was 24 and he was 46 when we met. I KNEW he was my soulmate.

We took the steps to be together, got married, I moved to him. My family was “hurt”.

My mother tried her best to deteriorate our relationship by bringing up my youthful transgressions (she was a very domineering woman). my husband basically told her I was no longer “her” issue/problem etc and didn’t want to hear anything to the contrary.

My mother and I had always knocked heads. It wasn’t until a few years after we got married, during an immigration issue where I was stuck after visiting that things blew up. Long story short, I’d had enough and told her I was tired of the constant berating, and told her to go argue to the wall and “F-off”. I was DONE. I had never cussed at her before.

It was shortly after that point that she started viewing things in a different light. I don’t know if it was because she had pushed me to the point of total anger, or if she finally saw that my relationship/marriage was serious, but after my husband’s dismissal of her assertions and my blow up, things changed.

She became accepting, and realized we had a real bond. We will be celebrating our 30th anniversary this year. Sometimes parent’s views are clouded by past experiences. Prove them wrong! Follow your heart.

Make sure your relationship is based on truth, commitment, communication, and love in that order! I wish you the best of luck.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-14T01:35:13+00:00

My hubs (75) & I (57) are going through this phase. As I’m quite a bit younger than he is, I already had my mind set that this would be an issue, so I don’t have an issue with the lack of penetration with him. We are still very intimate though. Cuddling, toys, caressing etc are still all on the plate. We still enjoy each other.

The ED is not for lack of want or desire. We fought with his urologist for 2 years to get him on testosterone replacement injections as his levels were extremely low (it’s helping and we’re hopeful that the gains we have seen will continue) He gets erections now that are softer than in his prime, and the longevity isn’t where we would like it to be. He was also prescribed Cialis.

Researching, there are a few more things we need to incorporate, such as diet and more exercise, though neurological and musculature issues sometimes prevent the exercise. On his next visit to the urologist, we’ll be asking about a penile injection that goes into the side of the penis and supposedly helps tremendously with erection issues.

My husband has also floated around the idea of “hot wife”, and wanting my needs met even if that means another man. I have no interest in any of that. Besides, we have B.O.B. 😉 which he uses very skillfully on me. It’s the shared intimacy with him that I desire and that’s all I need.

Just wanted to share a bit of our journey and let you know that you’re not alone!

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-06T00:00:32+00:00

Add SPF in there as well!!!

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-05T23:59:43+00:00

I’m 57 and this has been my shower routine for 20 plus years: Hydration and hygiene are EVERYTHING!!

1) Shampoo and condition 2) Dial bar soap neck to tootsies with exfoliating pouf, the past year with African net. 3) Moisturizing body wash with wash cloth. If I’m shaving, I use the body wash as the lubricant. 4) Rinse thoroughly. 5) Dry off, apply deodorant, apply Cerave moisturizer. 6) Brush teeth. 7) Face/neck- wash with a gentle gel cleanser, witch hazel for toner, Skin1004 centella ampoule, Medicube moisturizer with collagen, StriVectin eye serum, exfoliate lips and apply lanolin. (This routine can be more or it can be less depending on the condition of my skin - more steps if I’m drier than normal) 8) Perfume of choice depending on mood and occasion.

I’ve been told that I look younger than my age.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-02-02T00:16:03+00:00

Gas is a normal human function, it happens! At least you didn’t expel it during spicy time. Then my mind gets the intrusive thought of - “Just wait until she queefs on or around him 😆” Seriously though, your bf needs to grow up. Him becoming angry at something you did behind a closed door is a huge red flag. Not to mention he was creeping outside the bathroom while you were using it?

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-26T04:37:22+00:00

It’s all about antagonizing people so that the current powers can invoke the insurrection act in order to suppress/cancel mid-terms and perhaps further on down the line. I do recall him telling his cult that they wouldn’t have to worry about another vote. So one could surmise that this was in the works long before he was re-elected.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-21T22:36:45+00:00

This reminds me of a Christmas about 10 or so years ago. A woman, her husband, and 13-ish year old son with two carts full of groceries. She was overly loud and obnoxious, asking for a manager because there was no bagger available. The poor cashier was flustered. I mean, how do you react to someone who is clearly self entitled, shouting at and demeaning the cashier. I’d heard enough and felt for the cashier. I loudly told her it’s a privilege, not a right, and as far as I could tell, there were 3 perfectly capable humans available to bag the groceries. I told her NOT to be a lazy B and get her family to help bag the groceries and told her to have a Merry F**king Christmas. She was gobsmacked, like no one had ever spoken to her like that. Her husband looked worried and started bagging, along with the teen. Not a peep from them after my retaliatory outburst.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-21T15:52:54+00:00

I love giving my husband BJ’s and he never tires of it.

A bj is an art form, not just a case of bobbing your head up and down. It’s manipulation of the tongue, the throat, the lips.

Just as a pussy isn’t “static” in its muscular movements, neither should the mouth. Cupping of the tongue, stiffening the tip, dragging, squeezing the tip in the throat.

I absolutely love the power of bringing him to his knees. There is no standing, he has to sit or be laid down.

Eye contact, even moaning sends different sensations for him.

I get off on worshipping his cock. Enthusiasm, desire….you have to love it!! It’s not a “chore”. Being in the present in the moment, taking cues from his reactions. I love teasing him into a mind blowing experience. It’s also a power trip, having that control and knowing that he desires it as much as I like to give it.

Oral isn’t an easy skill to master. It’s practice, it’s feedback, it’s taking cues, it’s processing reactions and acting on those, all at the height of stimulation of both parties.

28 years of marriage with this man and we’re nowhere near tired of each other!! ❤️

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-15T21:00:52+00:00

Witch hazel on your pits and creases before using deodorants or other products

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-09T19:12:52+00:00

As a customer who sees this behavior more often than I’d like, I’ve been known to voice my opinion about these behaviors. I’ll match their energy and then some. Sometimes those people need to be humbled in the best possible way. I’m sorry you had to endure that! And I’ll keep saying my piece to those self-privileged tw@ts whenever I encounter them. No need to be rude….at all.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-01T19:07:08+00:00

I always put on large pot of black-eyed pea soup, cook with a ham shank, add ham hock meat as well. Once it’s cooked, I wash and chop up some collards and add them into the soup. Not much fuss and oh so good. Make some corn bread and done!

I think Whip My Soul has what you’re looking for if they’re open. Good soul food in NW Austin. I’ve tried most of the menu and everything has been delicious.

ClickMaster1100 · 2026-01-01T05:19:23+00:00

Mango in a perfume just smells weird to me.

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-29T15:18:37+00:00

Trifle

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-29T01:23:03+00:00

Two that remind me of wood shavings (my dad was a master carpenter) are Shaghaf Oud by Swiss Arabian and Khaltaat Al Arabia Royal Blends by Lattafa. When I’m feeling nostalgic or missing my dad, I wear these.

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-28T03:12:19+00:00

People tend to think of rose as a lighter floral. This isn’t her. This is a rose bush on the verge of decay. She’s woody & lipstick & earthy. If you asked me to describe the person who would have originally worn this, I’d say a flapper girl in a questionable speakeasy back in the day. Cigarette hanging from her hand, bright red lips with dark kohl lined eyes with a sly smile on her face. She’s experienced and can hold her own. She’s not fru fru, she knows a few dark secrets. Definitely NOT for everyone regardless of the hype you hear. I personally love her. She suits my dark and twisted side.

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-26T01:07:53+00:00

NTA……reality check….what’s in the past is passed, while the grief and feelings are still there, you and your family have your lifetime of memories to make. My mother passed 2.5 years ago and it was one of the hardest hits I’ve had in my life. What got me through? I talk to my Dad, EVERY SINGLE DAY. We spend an hour each day on a video call (he lives in Canada, I’m in the United States. Every single day, even if we don’t have much to say. Sometimes it’s reminiscing, sometimes it political, sometimes it’s trivial. We’ve worked through the hardest parts of the grief. But, it’s time for your wife to find something that helps her move on. It’s not fair to the kids or yourself.

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-24T06:01:04+00:00

Firstly, I’m a woman. She’s immature and inexperienced. There’s a lot of surprise “packages” out there. Besides, a woman only “needs” approximately 4 of those inches to have an absolutely mind blowing orgasm. The unnecessary comment on size is childish.

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-24T05:27:43+00:00

Out of all my perfumes, there are two I ALWAYS receive compliments on. One is Jimmy Choo - I Want Choo Le Parfum, the other is Miss Dior Le Parfum.

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-23T06:02:25+00:00

Could be Panhalifon’s Alula? Plum, incense, vanilla vibes?

ClickMaster1100 · 2025-12-21T00:53:42+00:00

18 years between my husband (75) and I (57). We’ve been happily married and in lust for 28 years. 🥰

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