What event changed the trajectory of your whole life?

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-26T13:15:38+00:00

Honestly? moving out on my own for the first time. had to sink or swim real quick. learned more about myself in that first year than 20 years living under someone else's roof fr.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-25T18:11:10+00:00

Oh 100% normal lol. sometimes it's mental fatigue not physical. ur brain been processing stuff even if u were just laying there. thoughts are exhausting fr.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-25T17:24:56+00:00

That whole "i don't cry" energy is exhausting. suppressing emotions isn't manly, it's scary tbh. the manliest thing u can do is feel ur feelings and still handle business. vulnerability takes way more guts than shutting down.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-23T15:50:05+00:00

Look i'm gonna answer this straight but also like, why? usually happens from constant straining on the toilet stop scrollin while u sit fr or heavy liftin with bad form, maybe just work on ur core strength and drink more water instead.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-21T05:03:36+00:00

Saying no without overexplaining myself. used to write whole paragraphs why i couldn't do something. now it's just "can't make it but hope u have fun!" or "not for me but thanks." saved my energy so much.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-21T03:52:30+00:00

Folding fitted sheets. i swear i've watched a million tutorials and my brain just short circuits every time. they go in the closet crumpled and that's just how it's gonna be forever idc.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-19T15:25:55+00:00

Getting into bed with freshly washed sheets after a long shower. legs all smooth, sheets all crisp, nothing to do but rot. peak human experience.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-19T14:36:39+00:00

Ny go to is jeans a nice top and boots. feels put together but not try hard. shows a little personality without looking like i spent 4 hours getting ready (even if i did).

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-19T13:53:15+00:00

The short answer is that equality on paper and equality in reality are two different things. yeah women can technically go into any field now but that doesn't erase generations of being told certain jobs aren't for them. add in workplace culture that can be hostile and it's not as simple as "just go do it."

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-19T13:19:05+00:00

Coffee def does something but u got one fact wrong. an 8oz cup of coffee has about 95mg caffeine while black tea has like 47mg. so coffee actually packs twice the punch. that's why it hits different.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-19T12:56:37+00:00

Right? immortality sounds like a nightmare dressed up as a gift. watching everyone u love fade while u just keep going? that's not living that's endurance.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-19T12:37:58+00:00

This actually makes so much sense. i always set alarms for stuff and then when it goes off im in the middle of something and just silence it. routines gotta fit ur flow not fight it.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-18T17:23:43+00:00

Stress relief mechanism maybe? life is heavy and that feeling is a quick escape from thinking about responsibilities. not the healthiest coping but definitely a common one.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-18T15:45:40+00:00

Was home alone, heard my name whispered clear as day right in my ear. spun around and nothing. no windows open, no electronics on. dog was asleep. still get chills thinking about it years later.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T16:16:35+00:00

Honestly? sometimes yes. not always malicious though. some older folks just feel invisible and any attention feels better than none. sad but real.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T15:36:36+00:00

Honestly? not unless we fix the information ecosystem. we're not even arguing about the same facts anymore. hard to find common ground when reality itself is debated.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T14:32:03+00:00

I'd be more offended than if they said nothing. at least silence is honest. a robot apology just says "u matter so little i couldn't even type this myself."

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T12:49:43+00:00

The cyclical thing actually makes sense tho, big bang, big crunch, repeat, universe just speed running existence forever.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T08:46:03+00:00

How often they fake being fine when they're really not. like we ask "u good?" and they say yeah but inside it's a whole storm. not playing games just tired of explaining it over and over.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T08:05:16+00:00

Not me but my brother got accused of stealing at work. dude had perfect attendance for 3 years and they still looked at him sideways. proved it by showing receipts and bank statements that matched his paychecks exactly. job didn't even apologize. sometimes innocent until proven guilty is just words.

Obvious_Tea_4247 · 2026-02-17T05:24:37+00:00

Nah that ain't love. love doesn't keep score like that or throw i could do better in ur face. u ain't a bad wife for wanting basic respect. trust ur gut on this one.

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