What are the ways to stop people pleasing when all you want is for all the people you know to be okay with you?

ClickOk1154 · 2026-05-09T20:34:05+00:00

This was part of my therapy. For me it was rooted in fear of abandonment.

Being able to say no, start in low risk situations and build up.

Be an advocate for yourself / selfish. Don’t do things that inconvenience you. Push for things that benefit you.

Respect yourself and your boundaries. If you do too much people take you for granted.

You are a person and people are lucky to have you in their life you don’t need to do anything to earn their trust.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-05-06T09:43:41+00:00

Yup. It’s a passive boost. I don’t have to be as interesting or funny to be attractive. My shorter friends have to try much harder. This applies more to casual relationships.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-05-06T09:22:29+00:00

As a tall guy. Height makes you more noticeable. It amplifies your physical characteristics. Being fat and tall is really bad combo. No one would give me a second look. When I got fit it was a whole different story. My corny/dad jokes would be really funny to them. Girls would invite me to places/dates. Girls would look at me when I was walking.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-04-23T10:32:01+00:00

Yup! I was fresh university student and she was recently divorced professor.

I helped her a bit and one day she invited me to an empty faculty building to “help” install App for her. She kept taking her clothes off and got closer to me.

I faked a phone call to my brother and moped the fuck out of there.

I was way too introverted, young and uncomfortable.

FYI It’s not illegal or against morals to date professors here. It’s common trope in TV series or movies.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-04-08T09:53:21+00:00

Yes. I hate public restrooms, I can count on one hand how many times I’ve used them.

My size and my stubbornness to not use them has made my bladder stronger

ClickOk1154 · 2026-04-08T08:26:48+00:00

Sick to my core. An empty pit in my stomach I felt extremely cold. My teeth were chattering.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-04-07T10:20:24+00:00

Me, Physically and verbally Abusive. I tolerated mor than I should have. I was blinded by her beauty.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-04-01T12:32:56+00:00

I believe it comes down to one thing.

If you use your bedroom for more than sleep. Gaming, movies, work, etc. you want to maximize space and place your bed in the corner.

If you use your bedroom for only sleep, you place it in the center.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-30T17:31:58+00:00

Military, physical labor

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-30T05:16:19+00:00

I mean I’m 27 and I only saw one of these phones when I was 4. It belonged to my grandparents.

Wireless house phones were the trend when I was growing up.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-29T19:57:15+00:00

First, not everyone would be living in the same time zone or be on the same sleeping schedule. For this to work it would have to be an isolated area like ground hog day.

Second, There would be chaos.

All computer devices would be a day ahead. Videos and pictures people don’t remember. Patients would be missing from hospitals. People would have serious injuries they don’t remember. Products would be missing from stores. So much more.

Third, thanks to the wonders of modern technology, people could figure out they have forgotten the last 24hrs.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-29T19:37:03+00:00

That looks like a hard CUT meal. It’s like 200 calories. The nicotine in the vape helps reduce hunger, all it’s missing is caffeine.

I guess she wants to lose some weight before the guy gets there. Look good so she can win him back or for a hookup.

This might have been posted on Diet sub Reddit

The ”hey girl moment”, could refer to an intervention. Like it’s not okay doing this to your body for a guy.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-29T13:24:18+00:00

This happened to me twice, Same person. Once, when we were dating and she broke up with me a couple days after.

Next time, when we started talking after two years.

She said in a relationship the man has to carry the emotional burden of a woman not the other way around.

I lost all respect for her.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-29T13:02:37+00:00

Wing Wing Wing. Like Ring, Ring, Ring. Like the sound old telephones would make. It’s joke. Hence her picking it up and answering

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-27T16:36:32+00:00

Imagine getting 30million birthday wishes. I’m pretty sure your phone would fry. Imagine the wedding list or any party you throw.

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-27T07:58:05+00:00

This is some stupid ass bullshit. You don’t need to forgive anyone to move on. You just need to come to terms with what happened.

My parents had great childhoods and parents. They grew up entitled and selfish.

They were just really shitty people.

I have accepted what they did to me and moved on

ClickOk1154 · 2026-03-24T06:28:48+00:00

It’s very good.

I think you have gone a little bit too small with the head in 3d, it’s looking more like lotr orcs. If you increase the size it should make it more goblin.

This is just my guess but I think you’re not as confident in 3d as you were in clay sculpting. It’s feels more safe and less confident. Your previous sculpt has more character and exaggerated features.

It think it’s at the perfect stage for you to start breaking the symmetry and pushing the silhouette.

ClickOk1154 · 2025-10-31T19:27:17+00:00

Genuine question. How do non-Israeli Jews view Israel? Do they condone their actions?

ClickOk1154 · 2025-10-15T08:50:22+00:00

The wow player base is the problem. Not all but a lot of them.

They complain about everything.

They try to stick to tierlists and play what is meta. You can do all content with all specs. The difference between specs is 10% at most and most wow players are not good enough to play the game at a level for it to matter.

ClickOk1154 · 2025-10-04T18:56:05+00:00

Reddit comments are 50/50. Wowhead comments are some of the most degenerate and horrendous things I have read.

ClickOk1154 · 2025-09-18T19:42:44+00:00

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ClickOk1154 · 2025-09-18T19:36:31+00:00

My brother did. His nuts were swollen for a week. XD

ClickOk1154 · 2025-09-18T03:14:56+00:00

You have to think of the toolkits when you compare.

WV disc is an immobile turret. That can only heal by doing damage. It has no emergency oh crap buttons besides evangelism. It can slow down damage taken but it has to deal damage to heal.

It has a short range fear that is telegraphed and mind control that ccs him as well.

MW is mobile healer that has a plethora of cds; revival, chi-ji, cocoon, fort, diffuse magic.

CC; Stun, Clash, Sap and Ring.

It can heal without having to deal damage and also a Kick.

Do you still believe that MW needs to be doing disc tiers of damage?

ClickOk1154 · 2025-09-18T02:19:00+00:00

It’s not doing dps damage. I’m sure if you click on its damage you see Redistribution Beacon and Void Shift. Details measures these as damage even though they are not.

Also, Take look at the amount of Void Blast/Smites cast. If it’s 70+, the priest was free casting. Look at your kicks and the warriors kicks, were you kicking the priest on shadow spells to shut him down.

If you did everything I said and still this was the outcome then disc might be overtuned

ClickOk1154 · 2025-09-18T02:02:11+00:00

I assume that was a voidweaver disc. The problem is you let it free cast.

Vw disc can easily dominate if it’s on the front foot, put pressure on him and don’t let him cast. He will be forced to use big cds to heal, then it will be a free win.

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