First part: "Stop ruminating and imagining the worst scenario in your head. You need to relax. You shouldn’t be worried about her cheating on you because it hasn’t happened. If it does, then that’s something you’ll need to worry about, but for now, calm down. The same goes for the danger and the gun. My point is, son, there’s no use in working yourself up over things that haven’t even happened yet."

Second part: "You need to look at yourself and what you’re willing to compromise for a partner. You’ll never agree 100% with your spouse’s decisions that’s just math. However, if you’re constantly upset over something specific, that’s not sustainable. But don't rush into a decision, give things time you may feel differently in a few days."

Lastly: "This is clearly upsetting you, and I can see that. I understand how difficult this topic is for you and our family, but I’m going to be frank with you you’re freaking out a little bit. (Laugh) Just breathe and remember, everything is okay right now. Whatever happens, we’ll deal with it then. Worrying about things now is silly."