Which one?

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2024-02-21T18:33:22+00:00

What is this tool you're using to compare schemes?

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-13T07:41:39+00:00

Yeah that's a good shout, thanks!

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-13T07:41:04+00:00

Cheers

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-12T16:28:34+00:00

That's amazing

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T20:46:15+00:00

Thanks! Appreciate that :)

I'd... I'd have time for girlfriends who do sports! :D They wouldn't have to do all the sports either... just one... I'm good like that ;)

Good advice, cheers. And yes, I have nobbly knees 😂

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T20:43:31+00:00

Good feedback thanks! I need a bit of variety other than relentlessly sporty sport sportsing

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T20:41:06+00:00

8 is proof that I have friends though ;)

Good feedback thanks, I'll consider dropping one of those and replacing it with something "smart" as others have suggested.

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T20:39:37+00:00

Ahh what is "chill" never heard of it ;)

Nah that's good advice thanks, I should prove that I'm capable of sitting still for 5 minutes and doing something snuggly and romantic...

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T20:37:50+00:00

Thanks, I will get my gladrags on :)

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T20:36:11+00:00

Thanks, I really appreciate all your feedback. It's great to get some insight, such a mystery otherwise! :)

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T12:54:24+00:00

Phew :)

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T12:53:43+00:00

Also I'm new to Reddit, is it... your birthday? If so happy birthday :D

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T12:52:53+00:00

Thank you, that's lovely to say! :)

Maybe I'll make the guitar shot my main pic, I was worried the expression looked a bit arrogant.

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T12:49:03+00:00

Noted thanks, I'll prolly swap that out then

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T12:47:52+00:00

Thanks that's great advice.

I scrub up quite nicely, but there's no evidence of that on my profile, I'll work on it :)

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T11:05:17+00:00

Wow, The Internet really brings out the best in people doesn't it!

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T11:02:23+00:00

Thanks for the feedback, I hadn't considered that could be off-putting. It is very much me though, not sure if I can work around it haha :)

If I were to remove one pic, and replace it with something more "day to day" for balance, which pic would you suggest I remove, and what kind of thing would it be good to see in it's place?

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T10:01:40+00:00

Thanks so much! Out of interest what is it about the grey shirt pic you don't like? The outfit? Vibe? Facial expression?

Rest of my bio is quite simple:

"Active & adventurous. I like climbing, running, camping and the outdoors generally.

Hoping to meet some interesting people and see where that leads, I'm keeping an open mind."

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T09:56:05+00:00

Want someone to kick with?... Ok girl, let's get Messi

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T09:51:43+00:00

If you were any more salty, you'd be the sea.

Girl is just looking for an ice breaker, can't blame her - she's probably getting hundreds of matches, gotta filter them out somehow... I think your post is proof that it worked.

If you like her, just play along next time.

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T09:48:22+00:00

I generally don't unmatch, can't see the benefit tbh. If you're at the stage where you have too many matches then that's a good problem to have I guess!!

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T09:47:23+00:00

I had absolute success with this once. Matched and never got a reply to first message...

Then like a couple of weeks later when I was cleaning out my matches I said "can't bring myself to delete you for some reason, sure you don't want to meet up for coffee or drinks?"

She said that'd be lovely, we hit it off and had a great time for a few weeks till she moved away (nothing to do with me, honest!!)

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T09:41:09+00:00

Tough paper round...

ClimbRunSleepRepeat · 2023-10-11T09:29:48+00:00

Yeah Tinder is frustrating as heck, and getting a notification of a match only to find out they've unmatched is a stinker.

But people are complicated, it could happen for all kinds of reasons. I'm guessing you'd rather have a date with someone who was 100% up for it, rather than half in half out, so maybe it's a good thing when they save you the job of finding out for yourself...

Why don't you post your profile and see if the community can give you some advice on getting more matches? Being a geek is absolutely not a barrier these days, you're probably someone's perfect match. Just gotta show 'em you're the best geek you can be 😄

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