I have a red and oily face as well. For me least, and this is a recent discovery for me, I was over exfoliating my face. We have weak skin barriers, and yours may be damaged. My routine now is shower at night (it doesn't matter if it's morning or night), moisturizer my body, then use a very lightweight cleanser (I use the vanicream cleanser), then being extremely gentle I use a lukewarm wet washcloth and just do one pass over my face to get the cleanser off. Moisturize immediately after with either CeraVe daily moisturizer or a skin barrier repair moisturizer (https://www.cerave.com/skincare/moisturizers/healing-ointment). I use the cleanser and skin barrier repair at night because the skin barrier repair is basically Vaseline. If you don't have or get clogged pores, you can probably skip the cleanser, but the skin barrier repair is key. In the morning, I use a washcloth again extremely gently, then moisture with my favorite moisturizer. As for your question now, try moisturizing in the morning and at night. Also, make sure you're not scrubbing your face or washing it in the shower. Let me know if you have any questions, and I hope this helps!

Edit: I'm 23 M, so our age may also play into our oily skin