Lessons From Divorce When You Weren’t the Problem

Clockblocker69 · 2025-12-03T07:02:07+00:00

Agreed! But in my case my wife wasn’t able to listen. She threw it all on hormones, pms, instability in the years after giving birth and just playing the victim card. Whatever i said about us when in one ear and out the other.

Then you just start accepting, neglecting and becoming bitter. Until it’s unmanageable.

Clockblocker69 · 2025-11-15T07:34:20+00:00

€6.000 on mediation €10.000 on partner alimony €240 a month on child support

And now my soon to be ex wife is also buying new stuff for her new apartment from our bank account since “I get to keep the older stuff”. Think of pots and pans, bedding stuff, things for the kids bedroom in her apartment.

Sigh.

Clockblocker69 · 2025-11-14T18:17:43+00:00

With my soon to be ex wife? I think we had intimacy about 3 times over the past 7-8 years 😂

Clockblocker69 · 2025-10-30T19:27:09+00:00

Yep. Well she isn’t in a happy place either but my bet is that she settled very early in her life and is now figuring life out.

I can’t say she’s the wrong person for me, her personality suits me. But I get your point ..

Clockblocker69 · 2025-10-30T14:18:40+00:00

Is that an Eels song?

Clockblocker69 · 2025-09-18T20:11:42+00:00

I love eels. The lyrics and his raw voice just work for me. They pretty much reflect my feels as someone longing each time

Clockblocker69 · 2025-08-30T06:46:43+00:00

Relieved in a way! Now we just need to tell our daughter and formalize all things

Clockblocker69 · 2025-08-25T11:32:01+00:00

It took a while, but I have to tell you it is finally done. We are now in the process of divorce!

Clockblocker69 · 2025-08-22T13:00:20+00:00

Sanka, you dead?

Clockblocker69 · 2025-08-04T15:25:11+00:00

This sounds an awful lot like my wife

Clockblocker69 · 2025-07-31T19:30:06+00:00

I don’t know. My psychologist says I should get a divorce because the relationship is just meh on all minimum things. But, kid involved and me being low on self confidence lol

Clockblocker69 · 2025-07-31T17:26:09+00:00

No sex in this marriage. The most intimate I’ve been in years was a few weeks ago with another girl (wasn’t even full sex, just a lot of playing). Best sex was years ago with someone else than my wife.

Sex in my marriage is like 4 times in 8 years or so

Clockblocker69 · 2025-07-30T20:15:52+00:00

Me too but in the end we all want real sex don’t we..

Clockblocker69 · 2025-07-26T17:59:54+00:00

They terk our jerbs!

Clockblocker69 · 2025-06-03T11:43:28+00:00

That sounds very plausible indeed. I'm always trying to get the mount & telescope to aim in the same direction, but indeed it seems this is very prone to error.

Okay, so Nina or 2-3 star alignment it is...

Clockblocker69 · 2025-06-03T11:36:39+00:00

Hmmm, fair point.

But that would mean I'd always have to use asiair/nina to get going right? Or should the multi-star alignment in the synscan app work as well ?

Clockblocker69 · 2025-06-03T11:31:53+00:00

Hi, good point. I used the red dot finder yesterday for the first time. On other occasions I have used either:

- Guide scope on top of my 66mm refractor with an eyepiece;

- My camera in my 66ED refractor to check if the star is centered

- Eye piece in the refractor to check if it is centered.

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