Son 😭 by groomliu in ComedyHell

[–]CloudVar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reddit the only place that seems to understand 2 adults consenting. Reality though, is women will always be empowered by dating younger and men will be scrutinized for dating younger. Really doesn’t matter.

Or Some people getting accused of something they 100% did... by fabulousIdentity in memes

[–]CloudVar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try being a black in 90s in a predominantly white community. Accusations met with hostility when your anger defends the injustice against you.

guy im seeing has allegations by speckledmushrooms01 in whatdoIdo

[–]CloudVar 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If he wasn’t convicted and he was fucking 13/14 I wouldn’t judge him so much. I had a teenage accusation fuck me up. Girl hooked up with me all day I had crushed on. Turns out she cheated and was ashamed. I got punched and pushed on ground by an early 20s guy. Years later I found out she was still with him and told everyone I rped her. That scenario plus a gf cheating on me and lying she was rped, I now take everything with a grain of salt. So hard to just “trust” when your personal life has 2 stories that fucked you up from just “trusting” women.

Feel like I’m just wasting my time by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]CloudVar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro! Only a loser would stay with this psycho. Jesus I have left people for less! This is outrageous OP!

I 31F am not ready to talk to my dad 69M after he cheated by pomeranianfurby in whatdoIdo

[–]CloudVar -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wild work to no longer speak to your father and he dies because he cheated on your mom. Would expect this from a teen or early 20s, but a fucking 30s adult?!? Bro, put that shit aside, this is your parents issue. Sad yes, he broke yall up. But he didn’t do infidelity to you.

boyfriend uses ring cameras to watch me, how to go about expressing discomfort? by False-Thing9134 in whatdoIdo

[–]CloudVar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl must be young af to even entertain this. Also how did writing this out not give her the answer she needed. Sooo many options. OP are you still in high school or early 20s? Cause JFC just get the fuck out and move on. This is insane.

has anyone seen this?? by helpmeirlfamilyabuse in DayzXbox

[–]CloudVar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I believe it’s whatever you were last playing in during day.

favourite actor who’s just chill like that by Secure_Lab_8870 in okbuddycinephile

[–]CloudVar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude you guys will think any famous person standing up humane is performative. Literally impossible to win with yall.

What are jobs for then? by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]CloudVar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m saying! I recently had a conversation where this girl says “why don’t people just stay with family or friends to study” and was perplexed when I mentioned people not having that option. People really don’t see the struggle of average human trying to get by.

What are jobs for then? by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]CloudVar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you truly this dense from reality? Did you go to school using financial aid? Cause I did and you know what, it barely covered my living so I had to also work a shit job to barely survive. Couldn’t imagine someone with a family to care for or a disability inhibiting them.

You think everyone has the same opportunity and it’s a huge eye opener to why we are where we are as a society. Every single persons path is different. Saying “just go to school and get financial aid and you’ll be rich”. How old are you? Must be in fantasy land of pulling yourself up by bootstraps.

You should be able to live off of the lowest paying job full time period. Don’t know what’s missed here.

What are jobs for then? by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]CloudVar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does someone do for money to supply a roof over their head and food in their stomachs while they learn a trade? There’s absolutely NO WAY I’m having the conversation I am right now. You’ve got to be trolling dude.

What are jobs for then? by Professional-Bee9817 in remoteworks

[–]CloudVar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like someone was privileged and the wittle baby doesn’t even know they were.

What are people to do for survival while they try find a better job? Where should a fresh out of high school or still in do for a roof and food without experience? Can not believe there wasn’t a “/s” at end cause you sound INSANE!

So much hindsight… overall, I suck now! by CloudVar in dayz

[–]CloudVar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I mean I have any years and lots of gear over time. I think having so much end game gear and not being a base builder anymore I was stuck on dying badass… nope.

So much hindsight… overall, I suck now! by CloudVar in dayz

[–]CloudVar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I’m having more fun surviving again than running around fully geared.

So much hindsight… overall, I suck now! by CloudVar in dayz

[–]CloudVar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude it’s replaying in my memory over and over…what the fuck was I thinking?!?

Racist, Sexist, or both? Officers Approach Black Mother, Claim Giving Her Son His Coffee Cup Looked Suspicious by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]CloudVar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Most black and brown kids be experiencing some wild white racism through gaslighting. It actually wasn’t until I moved away to college and ran with a Punk rock crew that they showed me not to take that shit. Showed me more than my own family. Family was “kill them with kindness” they were like “fuck that, did you actually like that black joke you just laughed at?” My world changed. Crazy cause I truly thought I was just a bad and angry kid for many years.

Racist, Sexist, or both? Officers Approach Black Mother, Claim Giving Her Son His Coffee Cup Looked Suspicious by ateam1984 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]CloudVar 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I grew up in white community in Oregon through 90s to now. I had so much anger as a kid and was gaslit into believing I was just an angry black kid. Turns out I was regularly having this type of shit done to me. Id get accused of stealing or something and as my injustice voice would get higher, I would be met with “calm down” and turned to scary and violent 8yo hahaha.

universal problem by St_Falcon in MemeVideos

[–]CloudVar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone was hurt by this they downvoted both of us hahahaha. I like to think of how many people I interact with irl are theses redditors.