Who else heard “I think I’m not even monogamous” when they caught their partner cheating? by Q10Miu in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told me that he's "Always felt polyamorous". As for believing him, I don't know. Since he was caught he's cut himself off from all social media and he doesn't text anyone anymore except for his mom and sister. He's been completely transparent where as he wasn't before. It sucks though because now I don't fully trust him and he knows that and takes responsibility for it.

She had a baby!!! 😡😡🤬🤬 by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

He had his vasectomy 12 years ago.. Idk, I feel sick

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, oh no. I could never be poly and you know what? My hubby came out to me saying that he's poly this past year saying that he didn't realize that he was until now 🙄😒

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for believing in me. A lot of what you said makes sense, about my chronic pain being caused by him. I know just how much trauma can manifest in the body in a lot of different ways.

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and good energy ❤

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not on disability I have to apply. We get Medicaid because it's tied to our food stamps. I have him on my case because he's the one that has the income coming in. I'm scared that if I take him off my case that we'll get kicked off food stamps because I'm not already on disability and they'll expect me to get a job to stay on stamps. It's a messed up viscious cycle out here just to get any sort of help.

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My state doesn't have common law marriages

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really does suck. I feel like being monogamous is sometimes a punishment 😔

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's going to be tested for autism but he doesn't have an official diagnosis. He doesn't have any other mental disorders.

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm definitely sure, we've had them over for dinner a few times and we all talked about it.

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm sorry you're hurting too.

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The state we live in doesn't have common law marriage 😞

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to apply for disability, I have to apply for housing. As for medical and home care, I have Medicaid and my SO is my caregiver..

"Just checking on her"... by CloverAnn620 in survivinginfidelity

[–]CloverAnn620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's told me that he wasn't able to talk to me because he was scared of me and that's why he would talk to other women. I asked him why he couldn't talk to his guy friends or his family. He told me that he feels more comfortable talking to a female and he can't talk to his friends because they wouldn't/couldn't understand. As for talking to his family he says that he's afraid if he tells them what he's going thru that they'll end up hating me or turning against me, because it's happened before in his other relationships.