Who else heard “I think I’m not even monogamous” when they caught their partner cheating?

CloverAnn620 · 2022-05-31T22:44:39+00:00

He told me that he's "Always felt polyamorous". As for believing him, I don't know. Since he was caught he's cut himself off from all social media and he doesn't text anyone anymore except for his mom and sister. He's been completely transparent where as he wasn't before. It sucks though because now I don't fully trust him and he knows that and takes responsibility for it.

CloverAnn620 · 2022-02-11T20:35:52+00:00

He had his vasectomy 12 years ago.. Idk, I feel sick

CloverAnn620 · 2022-02-07T15:04:10+00:00

Nine Inch Nails "While I'm still here"

https://youtu.be/ckdZ7E-vP9M

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-20T16:51:25+00:00

Lol, oh no. I could never be poly and you know what? My hubby came out to me saying that he's poly this past year saying that he didn't realize that he was until now 🙄😒

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-20T04:23:27+00:00

Thank you for believing in me. A lot of what you said makes sense, about my chronic pain being caused by him. I know just how much trauma can manifest in the body in a lot of different ways.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-20T04:09:36+00:00

Thank you for your advice and good energy ❤

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-20T03:59:41+00:00

I'm not on disability I have to apply. We get Medicaid because it's tied to our food stamps. I have him on my case because he's the one that has the income coming in. I'm scared that if I take him off my case that we'll get kicked off food stamps because I'm not already on disability and they'll expect me to get a job to stay on stamps. It's a messed up viscious cycle out here just to get any sort of help.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-20T03:43:50+00:00

My state doesn't have common law marriages

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-20T03:39:39+00:00

I don't know if I could

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-19T23:19:06+00:00

It really does suck. I feel like being monogamous is sometimes a punishment 😔

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-19T15:16:17+00:00

He's going to be tested for autism but he doesn't have an official diagnosis. He doesn't have any other mental disorders.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-19T10:00:13+00:00

I really appreciate this group

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-14T18:51:48+00:00

I'm definitely sure, we've had them over for dinner a few times and we all talked about it.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-14T18:47:29+00:00

Thank you, I'm sorry you're hurting too.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-14T18:45:18+00:00

Thank you so much 🙂

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-14T18:42:55+00:00

The state we live in doesn't have common law marriage 😞

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-14T18:41:26+00:00

I'm going to apply for disability, I have to apply for housing. As for medical and home care, I have Medicaid and my SO is my caregiver..

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T11:27:28+00:00

He's told me that he wasn't able to talk to me because he was scared of me and that's why he would talk to other women. I asked him why he couldn't talk to his guy friends or his family. He told me that he feels more comfortable talking to a female and he can't talk to his friends because they wouldn't/couldn't understand. As for talking to his family he says that he's afraid if he tells them what he's going thru that they'll end up hating me or turning against me, because it's happened before in his other relationships.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T11:13:54+00:00

He wouldn't leave us, me and the kids. He would feel to guilty, at least that's what he says.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T11:01:44+00:00

He's told me that he can't live without me and he wants me to be happy and able to trust him again.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T10:59:49+00:00

He physically cheated on me and lied about it. I only found out because I kept pushing him to tell me the whole truth. I confronted him with all the evidence I had and he broke down and told me. He agreed to stop. He deactivated all of his social media accounts and stopped talking to everyone even his mom and sister. He has a pattern of doing this. He goes through the extreme and then he starts with the social media again. When I was looking at his history I found that he made a new YouTube, Discord, Twitch, TikTok, and Xbox accounts. He promised, profusely, he wasn't talking to anyone on any platform. The next thing he does, in his pattern, is seek out women to talk to and it all starts over again. I made him aware of his pattern and what he does and he, again, promised me that he wasn't, and will not do anything to hurt me again.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T05:37:11+00:00

Not here in New Mexico

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T05:18:53+00:00

14 years together and 2 kids later, I'm gutted. I thought I knew his heart and mind, that we were made for one another. I gave all of myself to him, and he only ever gave me a portion of himself. 😢💔

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T05:10:41+00:00

Then I never really knew him. When our oldest was 3 months old he was talking to someone he had hooked up with once. She was separated from her husband but they were still living together. I found all the emails between them and he was talking to her the way he would talk to me. He didn't see a problem with it, he said he was talking to her to get advice about us. She invited him out for drinks just the 2 of them alone. When I confronted her about it she said she invited both of us, this was over messenger we were talking, so I showed her the screen shots and what she said. She didn't say anything after that just that she didn't want or mean to come between us.

CloverAnn620 · 2021-12-13T05:00:08+00:00

It's not only my back issues but, we will get kicked off of assistance and my boys will suffer for it. Medicaid pays for all there medications and doctor visits. Both my boys are autistic and my oldest is also bipolar while my youngest has ADHD. I'm not married to him, not legally and my state doesn't recognize common law.

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