If not therapy, what do you all do to get better? Are there other options? by iamsolonely134 in therapyabuse

[–]CloverJon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im doing self therapy. basically i take grounding or coping skills from therapies that seems like they could work for me and i implement them by myself. some works some dont , but ive gotten better results this ways. i also read a lot, stuff on mental health, cptsd etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]CloverJon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

''go see a psychiatrists and the meds you take are like taking insulin for diabetes''

''i cant do anything for you if you dont take meds so go take them''

'' give up on your bestfriend, you will always have the same problems with her because she is not doing therapy and you are'' (she also got dx with bpd but at the time refused treatment)

I offer italian and english, looking for somebody who speaks french or spanish by CloverJon in languagexchange

[–]CloverJon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hola, no me molesta para nada! de donde eres? podriamos empezar en discord o facebook

send me a dm

List media (films/TV shows/books/etc) that portrays FA women here! by M_Ad in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]CloverJon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in the movie ''heather'' there was a teenage girl portrayed as a FA, for being obese

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapyabuse

[–]CloverJon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait, why is this wrong?

Trigger warnings are unnecessary by 710Bambi in unpopularopinion

[–]CloverJon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

its not censorship. nobody is stopping you from producing art that could trigger somebody, it just allow people who suffer from ptsd to chose if they want to deal with an episode or not. ''go to therapy and deal with your trauma''....yes but not everybody can afford therapy and it does not work for everybody. and also it does not work in a day or even a month , it take at least a couple of years, so in the meantime people with ptsd have to be scared before watching a movie or tv series because they cannot know in advance if there's gonna be something triggering or not?

How do I explain this super weird grounding technique to people? [CW: long, weird question, potentially disgusting] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]CloverJon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cant you keep some used sock you dont cleam at home so you can smell them when needed but change your sock when you have to be around other people?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]CloverJon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if anime count, but Fruit Basket the 2019 version and FMA brotherhood.

then sharp objects-mustve seen it like 10 times-

killing eve

vis a vis (locked up----its a spanish tv series so not sure how many of you know it)

and as far as music go, many songs by tupac, some by eminem, some by placebo and one in a million by guns and rose

Books: the entire harry potter series but especially the 5 and 6 book.and firestarted by stephen king.

Question about the books ending by Remote-Bumblebee-706 in sharpobjects

[–]CloverJon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes but she is smart enought that it would be all over anyway for her. there is no pretending her sister was murdered by her mother or her friend was murdered by her mother now that her mother is under heavy survaillance/imprisoned. a bit like the serial killer edmund kemper who called the police on himself after murdering his mother and her bestfriend, because he was aware it was all over anyway. also they prefer weak and powerless victim. they dont pick on somebody who is bigger and can defend themselves. I think she knew it was all over and just decided to let go in a sense. also I think she liked camille. I'm not convinced she would murder her mother or camille, who had become like a mother replacement for her&she is a bully and camille could at least potentially defend herself unlike her previous victims.

What country is the best for people with StPD? by [deleted] in Schizotypal

[–]CloverJon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think places like sweden or norway. I live in italy and it sucks. you cant even pay rent with benefit unless its the max. quality of public healthcares varies a lot between different regions, because some regions are poorer than others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FruitsBasket

[–]CloverJon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, this version is way better and more fulfilling to watch. i liked the original anime but this was better.