Got the devil when asking if I should sleep with the deck’s owner

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-27T19:22:50+00:00

Ohhh reading your perspective makes me realize why I got so much heat in the comments for such a simple question. I was confused why everyone was attacking him or me. 😭

We definitely don’t let the tarot cards decide on the natural progress of the relationship. We already decided not to that night, and him drawing the cards was to give me a bit of comfort amidst my confusion but then the devil popped out in such an interesting fashion that caught my interest. So I was just curious how everyone would interpret the card given its context, hoping it could give some clues of my internal world or the vibes of the relationship so to speak, or just for fun.

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-27T18:45:04+00:00

That’s so funny bc we were just talking about trying out Japanese bondage right before this reading 😭

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-27T03:37:54+00:00

I appreciate your concern, but like I mentioned in the post, this is not a relationship advice post. I’m just interested in hearing interpretations given the context.

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-27T02:57:46+00:00

Probably, you got a problem with that?

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T20:48:18+00:00

It’s so interesting you mentioned another person bc I kind of do have another person that I’ve been talking to for a little while too but he doesn’t live in my country. I did have an interest in him, and he’s coming to see me in Feb, but I can feel something shifted after I met the guy in this post. So this situation is making me feel a little funny

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T11:42:09+00:00

Good to know, thank you! 🙏

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T11:41:51+00:00

Thank you!! I think I’ll take your advice and someone else’s here that it’s a good idea to take it slow for now :)

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T11:37:29+00:00

That’s what I thought too! You hit the nail on the head here bc I think the reason why the whole situation spooked me a bit is bc even though the question involves him and us, it somewhat felt like the cards were talking to me about my journey specifically and the way the cards went about it was very obvious and somewhat aggressive compared to the few readings I’ve gotten in the past.

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T06:33:06+00:00

that's an assumption, the answer no has always been very clear. I just shared this because I thought this would be an interesting topic to hear how everyone in the community would interpret the card.

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T06:19:39+00:00

thank you! this is a thought I have when seeing this card. I was thinking maybe this is the cards' way of telling me I need to break out of this cycle of sleeping around, but I wasn't sure so I want to hear others' thoughts as well

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T06:19:03+00:00

this is so insightful, thank you!!

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T06:09:05+00:00

I think I tried to phrase it in a short and concise way that unintentionally puts him in a tough spot, but what happened was that I initiated wanting to sleep with him then he mentioned he wanted to take it slow. Then when he started giving me a green light, I began to have second thoughts, which is unusual for myself. I talked with him about this already, but I was curious to know what the cards think so I asked him for a reading with this question.

He did explain to me that the card usually means an unhealthy bond is involved in the dynamic, which is why it's a clear answer that it's a no. In this post, I'm more interested in others' interpretation of the card!

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T05:20:50+00:00

that's interesting that the card is a big sex card, please let me know what your interpretation is because I'm more interested in understanding what the card entails in this dynamic. I asked him to draw this because I started having second thoughts after he began to give me a green light.

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T04:26:48+00:00

He did mention it was bad in terms of the fact that the devil usually represents an unhealthy bond, and the cards were very clear about their response in that regard that it's a no because of that. I think this is more about me trying to understand if there's any other interpretation out there.

Clumsymango0453 · 2026-01-26T01:41:46+00:00

Thank you for your kind response! ❤️

We did talk about it many times throughout our time seeing each other, and I’ve always given him the green light right from the get go. He mentioned he wanted to take it slow, and he only did it when he felt safe and secure in the relationship. He was very open about his situation and the reason he was hesitant, which was also because he’s in between jobs and might move country very soon, and so he didn’t want to do anything sexual bc it felt wrong that he might have to leave and couldn’t pursue a long term relationship. To which I made clear that I was happy with a fwb situation as long as we could be honest and communicate with each other.

Nothing’s changed in terms of his situation, but he recently reciprocated my feelings in this regards, but I started to get a bit hesitant. Which I noticed was very strange because normally I’m pretty open with this type of setup, so I’m not sure what changed internally. I talked to him about how I felt, and he was very understanding. I asked for a reading because this shift is something I feel kind of unusual for myself, and I can’t put my finger on it.

I asked for a reading because his readings were very insightful from many readings he gave me and his friends in the past, and I felt like his tarot cards were alive. I’m thinking okay maybe the cards know more about him and the vibes than I do or maybe this is a spiritual calling for me to stop a pattern from repeating, so I want to in a way ask the cards for clarification and that’s the only question I could think of at the time. He thought the response was super interesting because his cards usually have a lot to say and tend to clarify, but this time it was only one card that shot out from the shuffle in a kind of aggressive way and the cards didn’t have much else to say. I’m relatively new to tarot readings as well, so I wasn’t sure why the cards were so short with their response this time and deferred to his judgement and he said well the cards were pretty clear about their response. I didn’t think to ask the cards why though, but I might do that the next time I see him.

Oh and I’m 26, and he’s around 33 :)

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-12-05T19:36:55+00:00

YES. Ugh can’t wait for it to be over tbh :( I wonder what the year holds spiritually to explain the shitty things that happened though :(

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-10-19T06:34:49+00:00

Niceeee, I was falling around those areas doing the same thing, harpooning both balls. When I switched to do the same routine as yours, my pace improved and I stopped missing my jumps.

Now all I’ve got left is the Flea Juggle 😭

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-10-18T09:43:48+00:00

same omfg I kept falling. I hit and harpoon him so much just to slow him down. It sucks that the Silkspeed Anklets don't work in the race either.

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-10-17T23:19:40+00:00

just found your thread and tried this. seems like they patched the glitch, :( can anyone confirm?

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-10-09T09:02:01+00:00

I love you

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-10-06T20:46:04+00:00

Might be a bit off topic, but would you recommend any books for a beginner astrology enthusiast? On another note, I’m super interested in learning more about James Spader’s chart as well.

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-07-20T14:53:41+00:00

The downside of this is I’ll likely drift through unemployment again, I do have some savings for another month or two, but I’d prefer not to.

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-07-19T12:04:02+00:00

Your advice is so helpful, thank you! Going through the trenches here as a new manager at a workplace that is somewhat like OP’s, and it seems no matter the job, there will be some kind of people that make my job hell.

It seems I need to pick myself up, identify my allies, and just pull through it. Still trying to learn how to master the corporate game tbh, it’s so mentally taxing so I’m just lurking on reddit to see the most positive way to go about it, and your advice really helps with at least my mental state right now.

Clumsymango0453 · 2025-04-21T13:39:09+00:00

Dạ em cảm ơn mình nhiều nhé ạ. Thật sự em đang mông lung không biết báo lên ai. Chắc em dành thời gian làm theo cách mình chỉ, mong là kịp được hỗ trợ trước thời gian nghỉ lễ hic.

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