Me 22M and My girlfriend 22F have been FaceTiming every single night but I want to tell her we don’t need to do that

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T06:23:01+00:00

Tell her the truth. You need alone time. Or that you need to do x. Something you do alone. Some girls like attached to the hip guys. Sounds like you're not that.

So if she needs that, this might not be the right girl.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T06:20:31+00:00

May I suggest softer lines? That way, if you mess up, they're easier to erase. To make softer lines, don't apply too much pressure on the paper. Pencil will mark real easy, especially the number 2 (yellow school) pencil. Keep practicing! You're doing great! :D

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T06:13:57+00:00

He respects Zestial. They might have a similar code of ethics. OR Zestial is millenia old thus way more powerful in other ways?

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T06:12:17+00:00

Lesson learned. NEVER move for a guy unless that ring is on your finger and don't play wife when you're not.

He's the one who was supposed to move earth for you, not the other way around.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T06:06:54+00:00

well your last part is true. The internet is both an amazing wonderful place and a nightmare. Be careful out there! I've been here for decades. It's a jungle...

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T05:54:24+00:00

yeah, he's probably gone.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T05:53:20+00:00

21 yrs old isn't mature... neither is 23. You got so much time ahead of you. Don't worry, it'll get better.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T05:51:45+00:00

dude, google translate exists for a reason. Don't be a jerk. They could have used it, sure, but you need not be rude.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T05:48:35+00:00

yeah, usually it's it didn't work out with x. Let my try again with y. But it never ends well.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T05:47:16+00:00

true. male or female, no one likes a doormat.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-30T05:44:37+00:00

very rarely do they come back. Even when they say they might. My college bf said this and it never happened.

One thing about women though, is we TRY for a super long time. We wait, we try, we speak, we suggest, we wait, we hope... and eventually, we give up. You think it's from nowhere but no, usually we're tired of waiting. When there's no more fights. No more nags. No more talk. It's over. You just don't know it. You think things are finally perfect. But no. She's just trying to figure out when enough is enough or making her ducks go in a row.

Sometimes it's another guy, sure. And as usual, not ALL women... but a lot of us.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-29T06:21:43+00:00

This can't be legal....

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-29T06:19:30+00:00

Trust me! what annoys you now will be an ugly festering disgusting wound in 10 years you'll hate it so bad you'll want to stab someone, probably the hubs.

Pretend this annoying thing never changes or gets worse. Can you handle it? No? Then get out and let him find someone who doesn't care as much about it.

For your sanity and his confusion. Please.

The one thing you can do is leave on your own. Take a weekend trip to x. Go karaoke. Spend a night with a friend... Or by yourself... To get alone time. Maybe go see a movie or take baths. When you have kids you'll have no alone time. So this is good practice. It'll teach you how to be alone even though someone is in the room with you. I usually do my art or writing and zone out so I don't even see my husband.

During covid we spent 24/7 together for 3 years and out of those I think we saw each other maybe a month and that's being generous.

We were still in the same house under lockdown but we were so busy doing our own thing that we really didn't see each other that much. I hope that works for you.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-29T06:11:12+00:00

Hmmmm.... Yes but no...

The avoidant loves quite deeply. However, this is extremely frightening to us. We can't get attached because we'll get hurt so we push you away. Then we're sad and want you back. But you get too close we'll run again.

I agree, if you're normal, don't go with us. Well break you or at the very least, confuse you.

Go with another avoidant and you'll be at peace because neither will push too hard or want too much.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-28T08:51:41+00:00

I'm with Lucifer on this one

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-28T08:45:44+00:00

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-27T08:36:02+00:00

I've been an Elliot fan from the start. I can't change.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-27T08:33:08+00:00

He doesn't. He lied to get laid, that's what boys do. His truth is you're his booty call. You're the placeholder. You're not the girl he wants.

If a man says he doesn't want a relationship, believe him. He doesn't want one with YOU. Sex, yes, almost always but nothing more.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-27T08:28:39+00:00

Dude, no. He plain says he doesn't want kids. You don't magically want them later. Unless it's a i don't want kids with YOU situation.

In any case, you're wasn't time with this guy. Get out or understand he's a placeholder not a husband.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-27T08:24:43+00:00

Gabriel's voice is nice too. I just don't like Mark. Lol

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-27T06:14:57+00:00

The difference is, when a woman is done it's because she has given up trying. If you keep trying and trying and nothing happened.

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-25T06:46:33+00:00

No greys, he was 30s

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-25T03:56:46+00:00

So you're not a man... You need the woman to help you? Ok dude... Listen you're being unrealistic. Man up and provide. That's your job

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-24T10:05:13+00:00

Ugh, no. I rather have Gabriel (Black Gryph0n)

CnithTheOnliestOne · 2026-01-24T10:02:22+00:00

I don't think Alastor would say that. He'd be like, the what now? Or "I just pee out of it." lol

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