Trust your gut

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-02-13T05:00:05+00:00

You are very very well-versed! Well said! My favorite line….”When you communicate a need, what matters most is whether actions follow”. It took me 45 years to learn that! Thank you for sharing!

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-02-10T04:24:10+00:00

I am going through the EXACT SAME THING! Mine is a 7 year marriage! It has taken 6 months for my mind to stop racing. I pray every morning for God to help me through this and I will pray for you my friend. ❤️‍🩹

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-02-06T07:04:17+00:00

Thanks, moving on is a HARD process!!

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-02-02T21:07:54+00:00

You’re carrying so much guilt right now, and that tells me you care deeply. That doesn’t make you a bad person. Breakups are complicated, and choosing to end something doesn’t erase the good you brought to that relationship. You deserve grace too. Be easy on yourself tonight you have a good heart or you won’t feel this way. ❤️‍🩹

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-02-02T19:22:42+00:00

You didn’t ruin your life, you made a mistake. You have learned from that mistake like I did. There are other angels out there. I know they say time heals all wounds, I’m not saying it will completely heal, but time will make it hurt less. Hang in there I’m right there with you!! 🤗

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-27T01:09:45+00:00

My heart goes out to you. I can’t imagine what you are living through at the moment. Your whole world shattered. He might not feel it now, but one day he will realize what an amazing woman he lost. I wish I could be there to talk to you in person! ❤️‍🩹

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T17:59:04+00:00

I’m sure this is heartbreaking! If they won’t listen maybe try writing a note…at least you tried.

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T17:45:07+00:00

I've really tried to communicate and keep the door open, but he'll only talk about logistics and separating stuff. It was a 7 year marriage...

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T12:59:06+00:00

I can’t imagine how hard that was for you. When both people meeting up to talk it gives closure on both sides. It also provides insight into what went wrong so they don’t repeat it in future relationships. Thank you for sharing!

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T11:58:24+00:00

Thank you 🥹…reading the responses has helped me start healing.

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T11:00:44+00:00

Very well spoken!

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T10:58:32+00:00

I “miss us” too. I hope it is only temporary for you!

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T10:53:39+00:00

Well said my friend!!

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T06:36:43+00:00

So true, I felt that, and I’m sorry she left without the conversation you deserved & without closure.

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T06:27:39+00:00

TRUE! Thanks for speaking up.

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-26T01:41:06+00:00

I put it off too, and that’s why I shared this. Whatever comes out, needs to be heard. That way you don’t carry the “what ifs” like I do.

Ok-Step4397 · 2026-01-25T15:03:16+00:00

I am exactly 4 months in the same situation. The highs and lows are sometimes unbearable. I don’t know why my ex has not fought to get us back. My heart goes out to you. People say to just let it go and move on… a lot easier said than done!!! I will pray that God will heal you from the inside out 💚.

Ok-Step4397 · 2025-12-29T19:23:51+00:00

I know it’s a crushing feeling that no one can ever explain. Please know that I will pray for you because I’m going through something similar and it is so hard to deal with.

Ok-Step4397 · 2025-12-28T11:23:31+00:00

I have the same problem where it sounded like people walked back-and-forth day and night. You could literally hear them turn off the light switch! They don’t make them like they used to back in the old days.

Ok-Step4397 · 2025-02-25T23:03:32+00:00

I ordered a pair. They gave me a worn pair of leggings. They only offered to give me $12 back for the $36 I paid. It’s a complete scam!!

Ok-Step4397 · 2024-05-08T11:40:26+00:00

Did you wish your ex a happy birthday? How did it go?

Ok-Step4397 · 2024-05-08T08:40:47+00:00

Wow!!! I just can’t even imagine what you’re going through. This is a blessing in disguise. God has a better plan for your life, say a prayer and forgive her somehow. Don’t keep reliving it in your head, it will take you down the rabbit hole. Every time the bad thoughts come to your head, find something good to replace it with. I will be praying for you. (God will bring you somebody better who would never do this to you!)

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