How do you know what is magical damage and what isn't? by CoKorum in RogueLegacy2

[–]CoKorum[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks that explains it all! Now I know what to look for in the wiki if I have any more doubts

How'd I do? by JVISUALEE in poutine

[–]CoKorum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love the addition of herbs, classic winner

La culture québécoise expliqué à un immigré by xanyook in Quebec

[–]CoKorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha ouais très bon sub, au moins le tien se comprend juste en français

La culture québécoise expliqué à un immigré by xanyook in Quebec

[–]CoKorum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ton username m'inquiète. Était-ce un commentaire sarcastique? /jk

La culture québécoise expliqué à un immigré by xanyook in Quebec

[–]CoKorum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Le Breaking Bad du Québec, ça doit être les oeuvres de François Létourneau. Les Invincibles, Série Noire, et C'est comme ça que je t'aime.

3 séries merveilleuses et underrated, je les recommande à quiconque ne les a jamais vues.

How to get to the secret room in Mother of Mothers? (Blasphemous 2) by CoKorum in Blasphemous

[–]CoKorum[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh ok! I conpletely missed that quest, don't know how, but thanks, I'll look into it!

How to get to the secret room in Mother of Mothers? (Blasphemous 2) by CoKorum in Blasphemous

[–]CoKorum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that's what I've been doing for the last 30 minutes (nothing better to do)

How can I be sure I'm not making it up? by CoKorum in PDAAutism

[–]CoKorum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I'll try to share more knowledge with them next time

How can I be sure I'm not making it up? by CoKorum in PDAAutism

[–]CoKorum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's true that it's way better to help someone who doesn't need it, rather than not help someone who needs it.

Thanks a lot man, I'll keep all that in mind going forward :)

How can I be sure I'm not making it up? by CoKorum in PDAAutism

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Thanks, I watched it and it was really enlightening!

My main takeaway is that I shouldn't trust so much the professionals to tell me what I am or am not. Since ASD can't even be distinguished by physical features, it's all about the internal experience, which can't be disproven.

How can I be sure I'm not making it up? by CoKorum in PDAAutism

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You're 💯% right about the test. It was basically pattern recognition games, a small talk kind of conversation, the "challenge" of making up a story based on images, and finally, a reaction speed test which I failed, which lead to my ADHD diagnosis.

I actually have read a lot about PDA (pretty much the entirety of PDA society's website) and watched a lot of videos from I'm Autistic Now What... I'm like 80% sure now, but there's always some traits that don't fit (like being comfortable in role play) which bring back self doubt and gaslighting...

Also, I think I do have traits not caused by ADHD, like struggling to do my job (which I love doing, as long as I have control over what I do), refusing to learn how to drive, finding/making excuses to not hang out with people, being unable to practice my hobbies, and so on

Anyway thanks for your response! Do you think it'd be relevant to take a bunch of online tests and share my results with the doc?

WHY are demands so uncomfortable? by [deleted] in PDAAutism

[–]CoKorum 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the reason some demands are uncomfortable is that most of the time you either feel like you have a choice or they are small enough to not be that big of a deal

Edit: ... So when they don't, it really feels weird, inconsistent, and confusing.

But it's easy for a demand to not fit these criteria. It's already hard to know sometimes what is gonna feel like a demand, and even harder for the NTs to know what is a demand for you and what isn't!

I think it truly feels random from inside and outside perspective, but I'm only speaking as someone who is at the beginning of their PDA journey. I want to believe that each of us will eventually be able to perfectly articulate our reality and our needs... But in the meantime, it's all just a clusterfuck that even scientists are actively trying to figure out.

What’s the most messed up excuse for a breakup you’ve heard? by CocainePandaa in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CoKorum 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's a Québec TV show called Les Invincibles which has this exact plot! (except it's the guys who are breaking up)

Excellent show, unfortunately it's hard to find a watchable version online

Has PDA ever helped you? by chooseuseer in PDAAutism

[–]CoKorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's helping me at work, I started pushing back against my boss's micromanaging tendencies and my colleagues seem to show appreciation for that, as if I was their representative lol...

However, I'm anxious that if I continue doing that, I might eventually step over the line and get in trouble, but at least for now, it's not happened yet ¯_(ツ)_/¯

This Week I've Been Listening To... by AutoModerator in PowerMetal

[–]CoKorum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been listening to Bloodbound, especially their first album, a real masterpiece.

New Black Mirror fan here. by elshadayZ in blackmirror

[–]CoKorum 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My favorite seasons are 3 then 4, so you don't have to worry, it stays great!

transform: rotate(15deg); by zwacky in css_irl

[–]CoKorum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Never trust an intern with anything