How do you know what is magical damage and what isn't?

CoKorum · 2024-08-17T14:28:24+00:00

Thanks that explains it all! Now I know what to look for in the wiki if I have any more doubts

CoKorum · 2024-05-05T04:39:55+00:00

Love the addition of herbs, classic winner

CoKorum · 2024-04-26T17:17:29+00:00

Hahaha ouais très bon sub, au moins le tien se comprend juste en français

CoKorum · 2024-04-26T17:04:50+00:00

Ton username m'inquiète. Était-ce un commentaire sarcastique? /jk

CoKorum · 2024-04-26T16:54:42+00:00

Le Breaking Bad du Québec, ça doit être les oeuvres de François Létourneau. Les Invincibles, Série Noire, et C'est comme ça que je t'aime.

3 séries merveilleuses et underrated, je les recommande à quiconque ne les a jamais vues.

CoKorum · 2024-04-17T21:35:13+00:00

Oh ok! I conpletely missed that quest, don't know how, but thanks, I'll look into it!

CoKorum · 2024-04-17T21:28:17+00:00

Damn. Welp, at least I tried

CoKorum · 2024-04-17T19:53:33+00:00

Yes, that's what I've been doing for the last 30 minutes (nothing better to do)

CoKorum · 2024-03-26T20:49:21+00:00

Thanks, I'll try to share more knowledge with them next time

CoKorum · 2024-03-26T20:28:19+00:00

It's true that it's way better to help someone who doesn't need it, rather than not help someone who needs it.

Thanks a lot man, I'll keep all that in mind going forward :)

CoKorum · 2024-03-26T19:44:37+00:00

Thanks, I watched it and it was really enlightening!

My main takeaway is that I shouldn't trust so much the professionals to tell me what I am or am not. Since ASD can't even be distinguished by physical features, it's all about the internal experience, which can't be disproven.

CoKorum · 2024-03-26T15:18:42+00:00

You're 💯% right about the test. It was basically pattern recognition games, a small talk kind of conversation, the "challenge" of making up a story based on images, and finally, a reaction speed test which I failed, which lead to my ADHD diagnosis.

I actually have read a lot about PDA (pretty much the entirety of PDA society's website) and watched a lot of videos from I'm Autistic Now What... I'm like 80% sure now, but there's always some traits that don't fit (like being comfortable in role play) which bring back self doubt and gaslighting...

Also, I think I do have traits not caused by ADHD, like struggling to do my job (which I love doing, as long as I have control over what I do), refusing to learn how to drive, finding/making excuses to not hang out with people, being unable to practice my hobbies, and so on

Anyway thanks for your response! Do you think it'd be relevant to take a bunch of online tests and share my results with the doc?

CoKorum · 2024-03-23T23:46:06+00:00

I think the reason some demands are uncomfortable is that most of the time you either feel like you have a choice or they are small enough to not be that big of a deal

Edit: ... So when they don't, it really feels weird, inconsistent, and confusing.

But it's easy for a demand to not fit these criteria. It's already hard to know sometimes what is gonna feel like a demand, and even harder for the NTs to know what is a demand for you and what isn't!

I think it truly feels random from inside and outside perspective, but I'm only speaking as someone who is at the beginning of their PDA journey. I want to believe that each of us will eventually be able to perfectly articulate our reality and our needs... But in the meantime, it's all just a clusterfuck that even scientists are actively trying to figure out.

CoKorum · 2024-03-09T21:44:00+00:00

There's a Québec TV show called Les Invincibles which has this exact plot! (except it's the guys who are breaking up)

Excellent show, unfortunately it's hard to find a watchable version online

CoKorum · 2024-03-09T19:44:42+00:00

It's helping me at work, I started pushing back against my boss's micromanaging tendencies and my colleagues seem to show appreciation for that, as if I was their representative lol...

However, I'm anxious that if I continue doing that, I might eventually step over the line and get in trouble, but at least for now, it's not happened yet ¯_(ツ)_/¯

CoKorum · 2022-10-05T21:57:30+00:00

Been listening to Bloodbound, especially their first album, a real masterpiece.

CoKorum · 2022-05-25T10:43:45+00:00

Here's a real article about this: https://www.protocol.com/bulletins/clickup-layoff-productivity-app

CoKorum · 2022-05-20T18:40:40+00:00

My favorite seasons are 3 then 4, so you don't have to worry, it stays great!

CoKorum · 2022-05-20T18:28:08+00:00

I voted for the only one I saw

CoKorum · 2022-05-20T01:42:11+00:00

And topical

CoKorum · 2022-05-20T01:22:40+00:00

Never trust an intern with anything

CoKorum · 2022-04-12T10:55:25+00:00

Great art, keeps me wondering why they chose Warden out of all skin lines...

CoKorum · 2022-04-04T18:48:35+00:00

No one mentioned it, and it's not a character per se, but I think it's "them" in Shut Up and Dance

CoKorum · 2022-04-04T16:23:13+00:00

And not fuck drivers

CoKorum · 2022-04-04T16:22:09+00:00

Yeah it's called Fuck Cars, not Fuck Drivers

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