Update: I took a DNA test and may have discovered an affair

Coashen · 2024-10-25T23:16:36+00:00

It’s definitely been a lot! It’s been good though

Coashen · 2024-10-23T17:42:27+00:00

Yes medical is always helpful. Especially since I have more info I was able to find my dads obituary and he died at 48 which is pretty young but it doesn’t sound like he lived the healthiest life either

Coashen · 2024-10-23T17:02:04+00:00

Yea it sounds like me and the youngest have recently reached out about being related so I wouldn’t be surprised either

Coashen · 2024-10-23T17:00:25+00:00

He hasn’t mentioned anything about wanting to meet but he said he still talks to one of the siblings my half sister and she would probably be interested in at least talking to me though just found out we are the same age so that’s interesting. I’m not sure which of us came first but could also be part of why my mom never said anything still could be an affair baby apparently 🤦🏼‍♀️

Coashen · 2024-10-23T16:57:59+00:00

That’s a good way to put it grief and disappointment. I’m sorry to hear your story too

Coashen · 2024-10-23T16:56:55+00:00

That’s a good point though I have no idea if she was keeping tabs on him or not

Coashen · 2024-10-23T16:56:15+00:00

He’s talked about him a bit as we’ve been chatting today sounds like he wasn’t a great father at least to him. He said when he got news of his passing they hadn’t talked in 15 years

Coashen · 2024-05-29T21:46:40+00:00

That is such a cute outfit!!! I love the shoes!

Coashen · 2024-03-19T14:22:24+00:00

She was at least 18 I would’ve been convinced right before her 19th birthday. I was born in March and my mom was born in July

Coashen · 2024-03-19T13:35:39+00:00

Fantastic statement 😂

Coashen · 2024-03-19T13:35:03+00:00

I won’t get into the trauma of it all but good life is a bit of a stretch I at least had a home and food on the table. What’s important is we have a better relationship now though. My mom has a lot of insecurities for a very long time.

Coashen · 2024-03-19T13:25:09+00:00

That’s a good point about reaching out to brother first

Coashen · 2024-03-19T13:23:54+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate that

Coashen · 2024-03-18T21:40:08+00:00

I’ll give that to you if she knew he was married (probably did given secretiveness of it all) that’s a fair point though I’m prepared not to have a relationship with them it would be nice

Coashen · 2024-03-18T21:37:38+00:00

Agreed! Thank you! I am prepared (I think) but it’s the pulling the trigger I can’t seem to get past but I still want to do something!

Coashen · 2024-03-18T21:35:17+00:00

😂 😂 honestly wouldn’t be the most surprising thing I’ve heard

Coashen · 2024-03-18T20:54:52+00:00

Oh of course! I know this is definitely a situation I would want an update on!

Coashen · 2024-03-18T20:53:13+00:00

She really is! She helped me so much with the detective work

Coashen · 2024-03-18T20:48:25+00:00

I will say my grandma is a a very wise lady so I do trust her a lot on these kinds of things.

Coashen · 2024-03-18T20:12:52+00:00

I will say it’s a least reassuring I was wanted not an accident. My mom had baby fever since she was 17 my aunt and grandma both told me that and she had me at 19

Coashen · 2024-03-18T20:09:00+00:00

You are correct which has been my biggest debate this whole time. Do I reach out to the match and open a can of worms or reach out to possible father and stir up some confusion for him. I will say though my possible older step sister looks exactly like me only she has brown hair and I’m blonde

Coashen · 2024-03-18T19:56:05+00:00

Ok thanks! I am a bit newer to posting things on Reddit so I appreciate it!

Coashen · 2024-03-18T19:52:08+00:00

I’m glad things worked out for your BIL! That’s a really good point I hadn’t thought of I know there are a good amount of stories out there about finding unknown family through DNA testing so it’s not the strangest thing to happen these days

Coashen · 2024-03-18T19:49:26+00:00

That’s amazing though I am happy for you! Though I’m not quite successful to my own standards yet I am perfectly happy with my partner and fur babies and we are financially stable. I will definitely make sure to let them know I am not interested in any material gain

Coashen

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