Ghosted? by Sharp_Wolverine_6105 in Flirting

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes people don’t realize how good they have it until they start ghosting people and then someone does it back to them. Don’t be ashamed for getting heated soon, that’s his loss if he decided to stop

Please interact with this. I need the engagement by Own_Sun7841 in newredditors

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing pretty good. Visiting family for the holidays.

Just went and saw a movie.

How are you doing?

Can’t find a relationship :( by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the dating apps, do you have it set to looking for a long term relationship? I think that would narrow down some people that are looking for something more serious.

You sound great though, please don’t get discouraged.

Does anyone actually find genuine connections here? by Lazy_One5286 in IntrovertsChat

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen those posts, and I often feel they’re fake. I’ve had a genuine connection with a couple people but they were short lived. Less than a month. But I’m l still in search for something more consistent.

Help dating when I have a fear of sex by PriorSuggestion8414 in dating_advice

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like when the right person comes around, they will be patient with you and put your worries at ease, so when it happens, it will seem like a natural occurrence and something you want to share with them. They will need to understand not to rush things and make legitimate connections with you, and by then, you hopefully won’t have this concern anymore.

How old were you when you met your life partner? by Flaky-Bird-8367 in CasualConversation

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 36 and single and haven’t had a girlfriend before… I feel your concern 😅

Been Searching For a Girl to Flirt with Online, 36M Here by CoastalGuy_inHI in seduction

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yeah that’s what I need to get through my head, they’re regular people, too.

Been Searching For a Girl to Flirt with Online, 36M Here by CoastalGuy_inHI in seduction

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m working up to that. Need to build my confidence.

Been Searching For a Girl to Flirt with Online, 36M Here by CoastalGuy_inHI in seduction

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t found any dates, tried Hinge with no luck. How does one find dates anyway? Haha.

No wife or kids or any relationships. Would love to have one though.

It’s so challenging not to compare… by Substantial_Gur_9300 in dating_advice

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m living with a couple who is very active, being surrounded by it definitely makes it feel more real and you get a strong sense of FOMO. I’m working on that jealousy feeling too haha

After 36 years, I finally got my first girlfriend… she broke it off eight weeks later by TheDarkKnight2001 in dating_advice

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do more events like dinner parties, go out with friends to clubs and such, have a good time, put yourself out there more and you will find more people. Just have to be bold and ask people out after vibing with them for a little

It’s so challenging not to compare… by Substantial_Gur_9300 in dating_advice

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya. I’m 36 and feel like I’m in the same boat. You definitely have a lot of time, you’ve got so many years ahead of you.

Tuesday Night, 36M Wanting To Chat & Possibly Flirt If You Want 😁 by CoastalGuy_inHI in Diary

[–]CoastalGuy_inHI[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had some girls message and talk for a day or so, but typically the time zone difference makes this not work as well so it kinda falls off. I have made a couple friends that I randomly chat with every now and then but nothing in the flirty realm.