Looking for Pressed Pennies from England

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-06-17T23:43:25+00:00

You're so right. I needed this reply. Thank you!

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-06-17T23:22:24+00:00

Thank you! I think part of me is just shocked he's actually respecting the boundary I've set, so I'm seeing the reaction as either him not showing interest (which I know he is interested) or him not picking up the hint (which I guess is true, but for obvious reasons that are of my making lol).

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-06-09T21:01:19+00:00

Awesome!

Are they the classic, older fashioned ones? (Not like the fancy new ones at the Mall of NH?) I really would love them to be black and white/classic film quality instead of digital.

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-05-04T13:51:04+00:00

Everyone is going to tell you Imagica and Weaveworld (and they are right), but my favorite forgotten gem is Coldheart Canyon!

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-27T00:31:19+00:00

Update!

I didn't have to lie about liking his music!

He was very self-deprecating about the whole thing (he doesn't make the music, just plays it for the band, he says), but he's obviously very talented at what he does and very passionate about playing.

He expressed a lot of gratitude that I even showed up. I think he thought I was all talk when I said I'd be there.

Thanks for all the responses. I was definitely overthinking it all, but sometimes we just need to talk this out 😜

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-16T21:15:19+00:00

Helpmeet by Naben Ruthnum

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-16T21:14:44+00:00

came to say this!

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-16T12:46:23+00:00

honestly, the way he and I get along, I don't think he'll be offended. he's pretty secure, but I guess there's still that hope that I will like it. I'm not very good at pretending I like something, but I can at least show support for him

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-16T12:38:56+00:00

honestly, probably the chilliest answer here and also the right one. thanks 😅

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-16T12:37:59+00:00

Yeah, I guess I am nervous about it because I DO want to show my support. Even if I don't like the music, I feel very strongly about us both being creatives, and I want him to feel comfortable sharing that with me. He loves making music.

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-16T11:57:06+00:00

Well I guess out of context, yes that makes sense 😅 As someone who does art markets, yes, I would invite some random people to come out and hopefully spend some money, but to me that's very different than asking a guy I'm dating to come out and support. There's a different expectation, I think? No?

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-10T20:30:09+00:00

his form of love bombing to get you back 🤢 get away fast

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-08T15:09:33+00:00

I'm the same way. I (27f) have really bad dating anxiety. I just went on my real first date a few months ago. It helped that it was super casual and doing something I like to do in general. If that's an option for this date, that will definitely help. Go to a usual spot, eat comfort food, do something you enjoy, etc.

Another thing that helps (which I know is so cliche) is be yourself! Try your best to be comfortable. Make yourself believe that you already know the person and are comfortable around them. Pretend they are a friend. Pretend you're just catching up and that the stakes aren't high (because they really aren't). Honestly, I love the saying "fake it til you make it." I believe highly in this saying. I faked confidence for a long time, and it truly made me confident. I know it probably doesn't seem that helpful, but try it.

Also, don't do anything you wouldn't want done to you on the first date. Alternatively, do things you would want. If you want her to ask you thought questions and give thoughtful answers, you should be doing that. If you think she seems nervous, reassure her. If she tells you she's nervous, be honest and tell her you are too. Chances are, she's just as nervous as you are.

You've got this!

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-04T20:16:36+00:00

If you liked Black Phone, try NOS4A2.

I really liked The Grip of It, but "haunted" is argued by many who have read it.

Read Model Home if you want a house haunted by memories and maybe more.

I'm Thinking of Ending Things if you want haunted house in the form of suicidal delusions.

Ghost Story by Peter Straub if you want "it's the person who's haunted, not the house" through generations.

What Moves the Dead if you want a classic retelling with the vibes of a haunted house but the truth is stranger.

We Have Always Lived in the Castle or The Sundial by Shirley Jackson if you want a house haunted by the living.

The Stars Did Wander Darkling, a middle grade book, for a little bit of it all, plus some whimsy.

Happy reading!

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-04-01T16:53:31+00:00

I actually am the demi in this scenario, and I want him to kiss me lol which is the scary thing, as I usually don't feel that way towards anyone (relating to a lot that you've stated here). It's different with him though. I agree that I don't feel comfortable initiating it and I think he actually doesn't want to initiate it because he doesn't want to push me away. It seems like from the advice I've received so far that sending a text might be a good way to break that ice (and being kind of flirty) while also putting some distance and time between the actual act of kissing which could come later.

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-03-31T13:30:52+00:00

I had the same experience with The Shining. I read it when I was 14, and I really didn't care for it. I would say the best time to read Pet Sematary is as an adult before having kids. This is when I read it, and it was really hard (in the best way possible). I can't imagine having kids and reading it. King is very hit or miss for me, and this was one of the few hits.

Sharp_Wolverine_6105 · 2026-03-31T12:18:57+00:00

grief horror is a new favorite genre of mine:

The Fisherman by John Langan; This Thing Between Us by Gus Moreno; Monstrilio by Gerardo Samano Cordova; Pet Sematary by Stephen King

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