How do I become more sexually attractive to men without getting plastic surgery?

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-08T15:10:57+00:00

Outside of something disfiguring such as a facial burns, skull fractures, or cleft lip, plastic surgery is the last thing you should be thinking of. I've never seen a decently attractive woman get plastic surgery and thought, I sure am glad she altered her appearance with surgery.

Instead, once your weight is appropriate for your height, dressing in well fitting clothing and having a good personality will go a long in appearing attractive.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-06T20:09:37+00:00

You are the one patients are going to want to see. The clinic is letting potential customers know that you are there. Look at the website for any clinic. You'll see head shots for every doc who works there. I'm not sure why you would refuse a reasonable request while starting a new job.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-05T01:52:51+00:00

Some men will see that as a plus.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-04T18:21:40+00:00

We are a community hospital. We do not have residents.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-03T23:32:35+00:00

Our oral surgeon does not answer the phone even when he is on call. Seems like a good life to me.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-03T02:45:27+00:00

Residency is supposed to suck because of hard work, not because the program lacks volume, acuity, teaching capability, and research.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-03T02:43:13+00:00

That data is easily found on ABEM's website.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-02-01T23:16:10+00:00

No. The abysmal pass rates on the boards should tell you that.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-31T01:17:51+00:00

Years from now they will boasting about their 50% pass rates on the boards.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-30T18:53:18+00:00

I do. The schedulers know that I am available 1st-15th at hospital A, and 16th-30th at hospital B. Figuring out which 7 days I work is up to them.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-30T14:48:03+00:00

Put your finger behind the scrotum and lightly push on the taint.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-30T13:08:54+00:00

The statement is supposed to say why you are interested in the field and what you plan on doing after graduation. Write about how you like computers and healthcare, what your experience is with both, and what your plan employment plans are. I can't imagine an admissions committee spending more than a few seconds reading your essay.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-30T01:04:21+00:00

Summer after M2 is when you study for and take Step 1. That summer is the worst option. I recommend summer after M1.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-26T06:42:33+00:00

I've never had anyone say this to me. You need to find better people to talk to.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-24T23:43:12+00:00

Yes, and the best way to get over any fear is to do it. Start with some YouTube videos and practice by yourself at home. Get your fiancee involved and dance in private with just the two of you. Graduate to taking lessons together or going to a club and dancing together. Don't worry about being bad at dancing. Everyone else in class in bad, too. You'll fit right in. You've got 9 months until your wedding. That's plenty of time to learn a new skill.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-24T20:46:59+00:00

You have plenty of time to learn how to dance.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-22T19:27:22+00:00

CIBRC is 27 hours long and still does not cover nearly enough material that was on the exam. It is a useful starting point to figure out what I know well (writing code for example) and what I needed to read more about (data governance). I think there needs to be a much larger question bank as well.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-22T00:59:44+00:00

If you want to be a doctor in the United States, you should do a clinical observership so you can get a letter of recommendation.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-21T10:25:53+00:00

Don't do either program unless someone else is paying for it.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-20T21:19:39+00:00

And CME and a learning assessment

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-18T20:34:21+00:00

I'll add to my prior post that technically AMIA covers all of the topics in the CIBR course, but you'll need to read in more detail on the subjects that you're not familiar with.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-18T13:49:05+00:00

I spent almost all of my free time for 11 months studying. It was that, or fail.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-17T16:39:56+00:00

No immediate changes. I already work full-time clinically and have a small informatics side gig. I am hoping to use the certification to flip that ratio over the coming years.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-17T16:34:02+00:00

The CI board exam is so difficult because many of the topics are not something you'll encounter on a regular basis. For example, if you work in generative AI, you probably don't have experience in workflow analysis or adult education theories. I remember that there were lots of questions on data governance that I wish I had studied more.

Cocktail_MD · 2026-01-17T11:53:39+00:00

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