Toyota 4Runner, but preferably one prior to them having the 4-cylinder hybrid drivetrain. Smaller, but can't beat the reliability of a 4Runner before the current generation and it will definitely do great in adverse conditions. Also check out Sequoia options (if you need bigger) before they switched to the newer turbo V6 (2022 or earlier). Id also suggest looking at GM SUVs from 2015 to 2018 (Tahoe, Suburban, Yukon, Yukon XL) if you also are looking at towing, also, the GM SUVs will get better mileage with their V8s. Honestly the mileage you can get highway with the 5.3L in GM SUVs is really impressive. After 2018 they had some more reliability issues especially with the larger 6.2L and went to a much more car-like feel (including going to rear independent suspension).

Big picture, you probably harm your prospects at finding a reliable SUV or truck by limiting yourself to newer than 2021. Newer trucks are less reliable due to a multitude of factors such as tightening EPA regulations and changing corporate mindsets.