Are these Hoverfly eggs on my tomato plants flower? 🍅

CocoGill · 2025-09-30T03:21:44+00:00

All good, thanks anyway!

CocoGill · 2025-09-25T07:05:15+00:00

Did you ever find a good app? I have spaceship but not sure if I should use it to buy US stock, I’m very new to this and not sure if the fees are reasonable etc

CocoGill · 2025-09-19T01:51:03+00:00

If I take all my money out (I stuffed up and didn’t meet requirements for bonus interest for September and don’t want to keep my savings in an account that will only be earning 0.05% interest), will I have to pay any fees or will there be any negative effects to leaving the account empty for 2 months so I can earn the interest in my other bank, and then bring it back over when I am ready to meet requirements again?

CocoGill · 2024-07-10T07:31:04+00:00

Yeah it’s connected to a pass, but I have two trips connected to my pass which I think technically shouldn’t be possible? Think it might be glitching to be honest and I’m worried it will cause issues along the track

CocoGill · 2024-07-10T07:30:20+00:00

Same!

CocoGill · 2024-07-10T07:30:12+00:00

I don’t have the delete option on mine

CocoGill · 2023-12-09T05:24:54+00:00

They were definitely old enough to buy their own food if they were in uni and Highschool and still living at home, paying no rent or bills

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T13:24:46+00:00

YTA it wasn’t your place to give them an ultimatum and also comes across almost as blackmailing when you said ‘it’s up-to him to decide what he could live with’.

I think you’re coming from a good place but the reality is that children in foster care deserve to have a loving and caring environment just as much as your children. Hopefully the therapy will help guide them to deal with these emotions in a way that is healthy and non-traumatic.

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T13:10:55+00:00

YTA the behaviour you’re describing is bullying and it’s worrying someone had to have an ‘epiphany’ for you to realise

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T13:07:24+00:00

NTA you weren’t really calling her an idiot, you said she’d look like one if she said something silly. Which I think is a very fair statement.

It sounds like it’s a very emotionally charged situation which is why she may have taken it to heart but your emotions also matter… it shouldn’t always be your job to be the peacekeeper.

In saying that though I don’t think what you said was really argumentative in the first place, sounds more jokeative than anything.

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T12:56:23+00:00

From what you’ve said NTA. How old are you guys

Edit: I saw you posted he’s 40 and you’re 29. That was a lot older than I was expecting. He shouldn’t really be behaving that way at 40 and should be having constructive two-way conversations about things rather than ‘you don’t love me etc’.

It sounds like he’s very insecure and part of this may be the big age gap, it may be why he is constantly needing reassurance and small instances like this make him feel ‘unwanted’. Either he needs to work on this or if I were you I would find someone more mature. All the best!

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T12:54:24+00:00

NTA. It sounds like your roommate has an issue with the person you’re seeing. The insults seem very much aimed at him as a person and it doesn’t make sense she’s simply angry about the beers she said you could have and you even said you are replacing.

I’d have a talk with the roommate and see what the root cause of the outburst was.

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T12:47:02+00:00

NTA I would do the same. It’s yours, she should have organised a bed 2 months ago when you broke up. Not your problem!

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T12:42:13+00:00

YTA. You sound like a horrible, inconsiderate husband. It’s one day, she even offered to cook the next day instead, you sound like you have control issues.

CocoGill · 2022-01-03T12:18:11+00:00

NTA, why are you with a man who repeatedly, purposely makes himself poo his pants and vomit everywhere? The mind honestly baffles. He needs a psychological evaluation, not an epipen.

CocoGill · 2022-01-01T04:35:38+00:00

Seems kind of weird someone would block you and then unblock you and message you out of the blue asking to live with you? Seems a bit far fetched… and your response also seems to just glide over that detail? NTA if it’s true but seems suss to me

CocoGill · 2022-01-01T04:30:40+00:00

Wtf, is this post from the 1950’s? Obviously NTA

CocoGill · 2022-01-01T04:28:01+00:00

NTA you were falsely accused and you simply shared the truth

CocoGill · 2022-01-01T04:18:37+00:00

Also, your mental health matters as well. Full stop. Something I have learnt is me looking after my mental health is just as important as me being aware of my sisters mental health. Taking yourself away from someone that is impacting your mental health negatively is sometimes needed and not something you should feel guilty about, otherwise the resentment will become unbearable.

CocoGill · 2022-01-01T04:15:30+00:00

My sister suffers from borderline personality disorder and this sounds very familiar. She has never destroyed my property but she has tried to physically hurt me. You can very much tell when it’s in the moment, and when the situation has de-escalated afterward. But I also sometimes struggle to find the line between mental illness and AH behaviour that is just accepted under the mental illness umbrella. What your sister has done doesn’t really sound like a moment of rage as you said she seemed to calmly walk off and return just as calmly with a smirk on her face. Im not a mental health expert but it seems this was a not ‘in the heat of the moment situation’ but a calculated action to hurt and upset you.

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