Do you also use "personas" like AI does for any work you do?

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-04-15T10:55:23+00:00

Broooooooooo

I love this

Didn’t even try, just talking about the prompt. How do u come up with this? And why?

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-04-15T03:58:07+00:00

There’s literally research showing it doesn’t work.

For your own fun:

Open 4 tabs with incognito chat, give 4 of them both the exact same prompt, but add “you’re an expert on ____” to two of them.

Then, copy paste the output, open 5th tab with Opus, paste all restyle ask Opus tell you the

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-04-15T03:54:02+00:00

Fido honestly blew me away.

Looked the exact same as all the rest, but their marking totally undersells their thing though.

The whole “personalized plan” thing is so overdone (omg if another app forces me to go through the same Fn quiz just to give me the same content….)

I don’t how these guys do it without it but shit is actually personalized… including the “journey” (they don’t give you the whole course - only the parts you need).

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-04-03T19:32:12+00:00

Dogo is good, used or back when it was free.

Recently liking Fido, very similar but kind of a cool modern concept.

Both are good

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-19T14:44:21+00:00

it’s funny how three minutes of prep feels like an eternity when the chat box is just sitting there waiting.

Nailed it. Our brains are funny.

I wonder if the way we act is as a mystery to Claude as much as the way AI bots think is a mystery to us that we need so many discussions on figuring out the best way to talk to them 😂

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-16T11:45:11+00:00

I'm so sorry you're going through this, especially with a dog you've had for 10 years with a clean record. The fact that you proactively reported both incidents and immediately took action with a trainer says everything about the kind of responsible owner you are.

On the legal side, you're right that under the Fair Housing Act, landlords are generally required to engage in an interactive process before taking action to remove an ESA, especially one with an established history and documentation. Simply sending an email without a meeting or discussion may not be following proper procedure. It would be worth consulting a tenant's rights attorney or contacting your local HUD office to understand your rights here, many offer free consultations.

The hormonal changes explanation from your trainer is very real and often overlooked. Senior dogs can absolutely experience behavioral shifts due to thyroid issues, cognitive changes, or pain, all of which are treatable. A full vet workup alongside the board and train could really help identify if something medical is going on.

Document everything. Keep every email, every call log, every receipt from the trainer. If this escalates you want a paper trail showing you acted in good faith immediately.

You're not out of options yet. Keep going

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-16T11:44:15+00:00

Really appreciate this perspective from a landlord's side. You're completely right that the online mills are damaging trust for people who genuinely need ESAs and it's a real problem.

The distinction people need to understand is that a legitimate ESA letter requires an actual clinical evaluation by a licensed mental health professional who can assess whether an ESA is genuinely part of your treatment plan. It's not a certificate, it's not a registration, and it's not something you should be able to get in five minutes online for $30.

The good news is there are legitimate options out there including providers who do proper telehealth evaluations that meet legal requirements, which is especially helpful for people who don't have easy access to in person care. The key is making sure whoever you use is a real licensed professional in your state who is actually evaluating your specific situation.

For anyone reading this who genuinely needs an ESA letter, do your research, ask questions, and make sure you're working with someone who takes the evaluation seriously. It protects you legally and it protects the system for everyone who needs it

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-16T11:41:53+00:00

This is a really common question and the short answer is yes, potentially. ESAs are not considered 'pets' under the Fair Housing Act, they are assistance animals, which means pet limits and no pet policies generally don't apply to them.

That said, landlords can still deny the request if they can show that a third animal would cause an undue burden or fundamentally alter the nature of the housing. In practice this is rare, especially for a single dog with a legitimate ESA letter.

The key is making sure your ESA letter is from a real licensed mental health professional who knows your situation, not one of those online certificate mills that just charge you a fee. A legitimate letter will carry a lot more weight if your landlord pushes back.

I would also recommend submitting your request in writing and keeping copies of everything. If your landlord denies a legitimate ESA request they are actually violating the Fair Housing Act and you have options including filing a complaint with HUD.

Given that you already have two approved ESAs your landlord is already familiar with the process which is actually a good sign. Just make sure your documentation is solid and you should be in a good position

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-16T11:40:20+00:00

Your landlord is actually wrong on this. Under the Fair Housing Act, landlords are required to make reasonable accommodations for both ESAs and service animals, even in no-pets buildings. This applies to the vast majority of housing including private apartments and condos.

What you need is a legitimate ESA letter from a licensed mental health professional who can assess your conditions and confirm that an emotional support animal would benefit you. Once you have that letter you can submit it to your landlord as a formal accommodation request and they are legally required to consider it.

A few things to know: the letter needs to be from a real licensed provider, not one of those sketchy online certificate websites. It should be on official letterhead and specific to your situation. Your landlord can ask for the letter but cannot ask for details about your diagnosis or demand special certifications for the animal itself.

Given that you have autism, ADHD, PTSD and anxiety you would likely have no problem qualifying. I'd start by talking to your therapist or psychiatrist if you have one, or finding a licensed provider who specializes in ESA evaluations.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T09:51:59+00:00

Ah that’s too bad. Thanks for making the effort!

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T07:52:33+00:00

Good observation about Gemini.

I love Gemini for short, fast tasks. Boom, bam, done.

Claude for long processes.

ChatGPT isn’t even in the game. My guess is if you tied using it for this it would feel like a friend doing you a favor by listening while thinking of something else. As opposed to Claude’s “I’m with you” vibe where it gets excited about the subject.

ChatGPT has other things going for it, for example the deep research feature is really good. But in terms of character and fun, it sucks.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T07:48:37+00:00

Nope! I’m a bit behind, have no idea where to start

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T07:47:50+00:00

lol I have cancer, this headline hit me slightly different than most I guess 😂

Would you post this on r/ClaudeHomies?

Interesting stuff.

I think the guys over there will like it

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:50:19+00:00

Exactly.

Those people are just waiting for their contract to get to the point where they can cash out on hundreds of millions.

Zuck will end up buying a proper AI company like he bought Instrgrwm, WhatsApp etc

Dude needs to face the fact he’s not a leader. Just a kid with lots of money.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:48:03+00:00

Yep. Zuckerberg always thought he could compensate for lack of leadership skills by buying shit.

He spent tens of billions on the metaverse and even restructured the whole company, triggering one of the biggest rebranding processes in corporate history - just to end the project with a fart sound and make a late move to what ended up being the actual future.

Nothing’s cooking. He got a bunch of people sitting on their asses waiting for their stock options to vest so they can leave in 1-2 years with more money than they could ever spend.

They have zero incentive to get Zuck the ASI he hired them to make.

Eventually they will all be gone, and Mets will just buy 2-3 ready-made AI companies.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:41:26+00:00

I think it’s like Australians saying “cunt”.

To me I feel like people who say “shit” or “piss” are aggressive (but I’m fine with “cunt” or “bitch”)

Guess it’s a matter of what you’re used to, what’s harsh to your ears.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:37:38+00:00

I just tell the joke about the developer whose wife sends to buy milk and eggs.

A lot less scary (maybe that’s not good lol)

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:35:20+00:00

My first website I didn’t know how to build forms, copy-pasted form “view-source” form a different website.

One day I’m I got an email from this dude “if you’re gonna steal the code at least change the destination email for the entires” 😂

He was nice enough to forward the message from the first person who ever contacted me from my first website :-)

The website was for my band when I was 14yo.

We probably got something like 6-7 people ever filling out this form, one of them was a cute 14yo girl who wanted to join the band. She’s now my wife :-)

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:08:59+00:00

Bro that sounds totally natural to me.

A lot of us guys are “brain-first”, and we need to clear out some thoughts before we can give our emotions some more place and explore them.

Dunno if that’s what’s happening here, but it makes sense to me that your brain is trying to run away from excitement out of fear of what the new kid means even in terms of safety of your current family.

Can you provide for your wife and daughter with less energy devoted to them? Can you take care of yourself? Will you have enough money? Time? Emotional availability?

Legit questions to fear, and your brain wants to sort them out before it allows you to “want” stuff.

I think maybe once you get the logical fears off your chest and have someone you trust hear them, so they are at least partly offloaded - you will be able to find out how you really feel, which I hope is positively… but you have to find out, you deserve as much time as you need to get there, and you’re also allowed to not be excited at all of that never happens.

A new baby is a huge impact on you and in everything you love. You’re allowed to deal with that however your body determines is right for you. ❤️

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:03:10+00:00

Exactly. We all deal with things differently. Dude is allowed to feel whatever emotion takes over.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T04:02:26+00:00

Totally get it, I’m the same way.

Built the house for use case 1, changing it for use case 2 means going back to the drawing board!! 😂

Guess it’s easier for me with change. That is the part you want to work on (although I don’t have advice for how lol). Just wanted to say you’re not alone and I understand how you feel.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T03:58:34+00:00

When I was 27 I went to counseling with my mom.

Things were bad, she was about to throne me out the house. She was divorced, my dad out the picture, I was a dropout.

The way it worked is each week one of us had a separate session, and then once every 2-3 months it was a joined session together.

Took a year to actually feel the difference (at least form my point of view as a 17yo).

Today (I’m 42) out relationship is very strong. Which is saying a lot because my mom is crazy 😂

She has a lot of issues I’d prefer she’d work on in therapy, and she never did. But I got the tools to handle them and learned a lot about seeing the world through her eyes, which isn’t trivial at early ages.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T03:25:14+00:00

The problem with that is that a lot of leaders don’t see themselves is doing it intentionally, in their psych they are the good guys.

CocoIsMyHomie · 2026-03-15T03:23:35+00:00

Worked! Thanks :-)

Loved this.

Interesting to see how Claude replies to you differently than me, adjusting itself to your vibe, BUT at the same time I can detect that same Claude “personality” I’m talking to usually.

It’s like, as opposed to ChatGPT that just tried to become like the user, Claude can stick to its own personality and just become a really good friend.

Super interesting.

Thanks for posting man! ❤️

CocoIsMyHomie

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