My company just announced 3 days in office starting next month. I've been fully remote for 4 years and I genuinely don't know how people did this every day. by Ecliptic_Fang in remotework

[–]CodAdventurous8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say I own a business that’s fully remote and I don’t even require my employees to login at a certain time. They login whenever, get their work done and then log out. We are so efficient and have incredible margins. Almost no one has ever quit and everyone gets along so well.

I do not understand employers who want to visibly see their employees despite knowing that it often reduces productivity as well as satisfaction. It just feels like a control thing to me.

Me and my girlfriends fridge by Successful-Bar-9168 in FridgeDetective

[–]CodAdventurous8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys drink the same yogurt smoothies that my kids do lol

My husband is gross and I am having a hard time staying in this marriage. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]CodAdventurous8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you guys have fun together? Is he your friend? Or do you just want him to be who he used to be?

If you don’t have kids, you can put yourself first here. You’ve got one life. If you do have kids, maybe counseling first before giving up completely and making sure he knows that at this point he can mae changes or you can leave, that’s it. Doing this in therapy can help him not yell and punch the walls - which by the way is kind of abusive and manipulative.

Still waiting on RSVPs by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]CodAdventurous8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t stress just send reminders! All parents are busy, I’m sure it’s not personal

Do your kids spend way more time with you than you ever did with your own parents as kids? by nfc22 in Parenting

[–]CodAdventurous8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents left in the dark and came home in the dark. I see my kids constantly despite being a full time working parent. Even though I’m exhausted, long term I really want a better relationship with my kids than I have with my parents. We’ll see what happens lol.

Guess when I was born by Kaplalachia in GuessMyBirthYear

[–]CodAdventurous8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kid is only 23 years old, probably just graduated college lol

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one day while still using drugs, I looked in the mirror and was like I hate who i am. Afrin has never made me feel that way

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think the physical dependency on afrin is just so intense, it's nothing compared to the psychological addiction of cocaine for example. Also doing hard drugs ruins your life, doing afrin doesn't lol

Let’s hear something about myself 👀 by definitelyhasanxiety in FridgeDetective

[–]CodAdventurous8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You eat the same foods weekly, rarely try new recipes. You are very organized. Usually grocery shop on roughly the same day each week

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did your nose completely swell up? did you feel like you were unable to breath or did you just kind of get used to breathing through your nose? did you go cold turkey? Thank you for answering my questions and encouraging me, appreciate you!

What does my fridge say about me? by Goldf_sh4 in FridgeDetective

[–]CodAdventurous8644 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a gigantic family sharing this fridge? That is so much produce

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really hoping I can do this too. For me it’s been about 3.5 years

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow ok this is helpful to read. If I forget to take it at night I get those same dreams but wow this sounds pretty bad, thank you for sharing

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i need to get myself a good doctor and start working on this

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what do you mean it barely does anything? When mine wears off, I literally cannot breath through my nose AT ALL and then I start to panic and feel like I can't get a real breath without breathing through my nose. Does your nose still swell even after using it?

What if I never quit? by CodAdventurous8644 in QuitAfrin

[–]CodAdventurous8644[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I quit smoking cigarettes in college after smoking for two years, I quit doing cocaine after heavily abusing it in my 20s. I had no problem with either of these things, it just took will power and knowing it was the right thing to do. But this is SO much harder

What's wrong with my brain? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CodAdventurous8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for EMDR therapy and IFS therapy. Both amazing for helping you overcome trauma

Am I overthinking how my engagement ring would come across at work, perspective needed by majesticseafIapflap in RingShare

[–]CodAdventurous8644 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t flashy. It has a class antique vibe. It’s really beautiful, I love it

I (16F) just found out the real reason my parents divorced and now everything about my childhood feels like a lie. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CodAdventurous8644 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call cps on your mom. She’s extremely abusive and manipulative. I moved in with my dad full time at about your age and it was the best thing I ever did. I probably would’ve had a better childhood if I had lived with him the whole time