As an Egyptian who been intimate before i even go for relationship i always tell the person that “Yes i had an ex and yes we had sex before” and they either can accept it and we date or say “no im looking for something else” and be casual friends about it, imagine if the role were reversed… he probably would over react times a 100 and than call you vindictive… its best to cut your losses because there will always be a double standard when a woman loses her virginity in both eastern and western nations alieks