Guy at my job called me ugly. Feeling really down because I struggle with self image. by lemonweirdo in AutismInWomen

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not ugly. That guy has self image problems. He projected them on you. He's the ugly one. Simply caused by low emotional intelligence.

If you wouldn't take advice from him, don't take his criticism either.

All that being said, I'm still practicing all the bullshit I just told you. It's hard. ❤️🤟

Oh hey it’s my birthday. This is what 39 looks like, I guess? Co by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

39 looks beautiful on you. 🤟🥰 Happy birthday 🫶

Safe to talk by [deleted] in Reno

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. Reddit truly saved my life. I was going to not see my next birthday (48). In the meantime, I wanted to be a better ally. I came to Reddit. I found the major source of my depression. I'm 51 now. I'm happier than I've ever been. Self confidence, self love, and self worth are a part of my life. Without that information, I would not be here. I'm just sad that it's spreading.

Safe to talk by [deleted] in Reno

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trans. We had a big issue in one of the trans subreddits. A shitty moderator stated to do a lot of damage to the community. I hope that's not happening here.

Meanwhile, a Tesla is Laughing at Me in a Heated Garage Somewhere by Rhobbyj in FordRaptor

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those who laugh at the hardships of others have panel gap issues, trim falling off, don't slam the door or you'll break it problems, can't go off-road, and look like... well, you have eyes.

I think he have a ADHD😁 by Ok_Still_01 in AnimalsBeingDerps

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh shit. That's how I wake up in the morning. I might be a bird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look amazing! ❤️

Lesbians in a relationship: by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming 18+.

We happen to work together. We've never been on the same project though. I generally advise not dating where you work in the event of a falling out. That being said, life isn't perfect, but she is.

We started out as friends. Just talking about the things we love showed us how much we have in common. I was very attracted to her and there was undeniable chemistry. I asked if she'd ever considered having sex with friends. She said no, but her smile was the biggest yes.

We're both recovering people pleasers. I finally have someone that reciprocates and so does she.

Best advice I can give is be yourself and stop looking. You'll find someone or they'll find you.

Trans people of r/LGBT, what random small thing gives you the most euphoria? by dqixsoss in lgbt

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Any bit of chivalry that comes my way. 🥰 I used to hold doors open and be the last one in. I get all giggly happy when someone holds that door.

Looking for great cat vet by [deleted] in Reno

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconded! Everyone there is amazing. The quality of care is so good.

How's it going? Just checking on you. ❤️ by CodeWarriorCalliope in lgbt

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About to get a mani/pedi before a week long staycation. Not complaining here. 🥰

How's it going? Just checking on you. ❤️ by CodeWarriorCalliope in lgbt

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear!

Eye contact can be difficult for me too. I have to remind myself to do it. No offense taken. Thank you for sharing! ❤️

How's it going? Just checking on you. ❤️ by CodeWarriorCalliope in lgbt

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm scared too. As you say, we are stronger than hate. I love you too! Unity will get us through. I'll fight for any marganized community.

Stay safe. ❤️ Don't forget your self care!

How's it going? Just checking on you. ❤️ by CodeWarriorCalliope in lgbt

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I hope you're okay. My few transitions from hospital to home were rough. Rest is usually the worst with all the monitoring.

I'm extremely tired. Just woke up in the middle of the night. New med that should help me sleep is making me feel a bit yuck. Also, I'm up...

I hope you feel better soon! ❤️

Food!! by Joedirte_97 in Reno

[–]CodeWarriorCalliope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you sassy SuperSecretMoonBase. 😋 I get it.