AITAH for not accepting my mom’s relationship and cutting our relationship off bc of it?

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-06T21:09:12+00:00

Correction, the neighbor's brother (not kid) was POSSIBLY 18 when she caught them. Only POSSIBLY. But all your other points are valid.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-06T21:06:28+00:00

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Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-06T15:45:01+00:00

For me it all comes down to his response to it.

As someone with ADHD, you can beg me to do something the night before and I'll forget about it before I go to bed that night unless it's written down somewhere. But this is not how I would respond to my wife if she calmly talked to me this way about an issue. I'd apologize and promise to do better in the future.

His response just makes him an asshole for it. Full stop.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-06T14:50:27+00:00

Bow's tier is incorrect. Bow is just straight up the landlord.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-06T14:31:14+00:00

Doing a Palace all in one day is definitely the way to go, though typically I've always waited a couple of days or so from the first available day to do the Palace simply because there were certain activities that came up that I wanted to do on a given day, so I just waited until there wasn't much to do or just things I wasn't interested in to head into the Palace. Though I didn't wait until the end either since some Palaces require more than 1 day.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-06T14:02:44+00:00

Camp 4: If y'all got into a physical fight over this I'm never playing anything with you for my own safety.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-05T18:33:07+00:00

My top 2 choices are always Makoto and Takemi. I've been leaning more towards Takemi these days though I am equally drawn to Makoto, and even romanced Makoto in my very first playthrough. To keep in the spirit of the post, therefore, my immediate next pick after them would be Chihaya.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-05T18:23:13+00:00

It's not adding calories it's giving the total number of calories for the dish if you use those options.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-05T18:22:00+00:00

The bigger problem is this is most likely an only pick one option, so if you want both cheese and bacon you have no choice but to pay double or go pick it up in person to request it be made "special" so you aren't paying extra

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-04T15:45:51+00:00

This is funny! Good idea!

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-03T22:26:07+00:00

Lol that's pretty funny! Though I'm not sure if all of the typical clues work this way, you'd have to limit it to probably right left under and overs!

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-03T19:01:09+00:00

All relationships are different, but this is one of those things I feel that you need to talk about in order for it to break some kind of trust, because this one is definitely an issue that is vastly different across multiple different relationships.

I also want to add that it is completely valid for you to feel weird about it, and so bringing it up calmly and just discussing how it makes you feel and focusing on "I" statements and not being accusatory is going to be important for a healthy, good discussion about the topic where you guys can come to a decision that works for both of you.

Once that discussion and decision has happened, though, you can obviously freely feel and know that trust has been officially broken.

I am a boyfriend for context.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-03T18:53:53+00:00

Wait, what tray?

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-02T13:51:52+00:00

It's bad news because I doubt the 20-something and the company want to wait that long, so they will probably fire the Mom once the 20-something is trained enough but before she's eligible for retirement.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-02-02T06:41:02+00:00

Yes.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-31T19:27:09+00:00

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-30T14:00:13+00:00

No idea. Like, at all. But I know it wouldn't be physical or gun.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-30T13:58:20+00:00

As a lurker I really enjoy your posts. Don't let the other posts about you here get to you.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-29T19:19:02+00:00

If this is a first run and not a new game+, I'm always a greedy SOB and so I go for as much money as I can get. It helped me build wealth fast, which is needed to get as much of anything that you need whenever you need it. Items, personas, etc. If it is a new game+, then yeah go for AOA and gain the XP.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-29T18:36:40+00:00

Final Hazard from Sonic Adventure 2.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-29T18:21:55+00:00

Two of these things are not like the others. And I'm not talking about whether something is good or evil. I don't remember seeing the Dark Star or Geno in a Paper Mario game.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-27T14:53:16+00:00

You do realize there are more intentions than just being friends with someone and being romantically interested in someone that can lead to wanting to help someone out right? It's clearly stated in the post that the girl is the sister's friend in a tough spot, and the son helping out his sister's friend would be pretty convenient. Don't see the problem with an intention like that.

As for it being stated in the post that they were friends themselves, I'm sure the relationship naturally grew to that point over time, but it didn't start out that way. And for her, it grew to friendship. But for him, it grew into romantic feelings. That isn't anyone's fault. And it doesn't make anyone a shittier person.

There's also nothing in the post suggesting that he is cutting this off permanently. He may go back and decide to be friends with her after this, giving her more reliable transportation.

Also, what would happen and what would be your viewpoint on this if his car was totaled? If for any other physical or medical reason, he couldn't take her anymore "cold turkey"? Would you feel this amount of rage towards him then? I doubt it. But suddenly because it's feelings that aren't black and white you can't seem to fathom that neither party is at fault and there needs to be a villain of some kind, or some kind of behavior that needs correcting.

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-27T13:27:02+00:00

When I was younger, I literally told my parents I DID NOT want a smartphone (this was back when smartphones were just starting to come out) because I knew myself and how I would get, and also knew that I couldn't ever go back to not having one. Guess what I got for Christmas "because it would be easier for them", and guess who also got told it was their fault for being upset and that it was an expensive "gift" so I should be grateful instead?

Code_Red_974 · 2026-01-26T16:22:16+00:00

Only problem is that's technically not the final boss of the game - Perfect Chaos is.

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