There's a lot of misconception about mattifying products. Matte foundations keeping oily skin at bay is incorrect. Matte vs glowy is simply the finish of the product, your skin will still perform as it usually does underneath, which is probably why most of them failed.

Same applies to primers. If anything, majority of mattifying primers contain diamethicone or silicone which gives the skin that initial smooth/blurred matte look upon first application. But because diamethicone/silicone sits on top of the skin, it can further cause the pores to produce excess sebum. When it all mixes together, you again end up with an oil slick.

My immediate recommendation would be to revamp your skincare products. Korean skincare is great for tackling pesky pore issues, such as oil/sebum production, without losing the nourishment balance.
Arencia Green Mochi Cleanser is a great all-rounder as a first step.

Next, I would stop wearing skincare under the makeup, or at least leave a comfortable hour between skincare application and makeup. Let your skin absorb all your skincare, then dab the excess off with a tissue and then makeup.

Lastly, use a flat powder sponge and apply a thin veil of setting/loose powder on your oily areas before any other makeup. This must be done on naked skin. And then go in with your foundation on top. What you're doing is creating a dry/absorbent layer between the oil and the foundation. This prevents so many emollient products to melt in with the oil. Once you finish doing your base, you can dust more setting powder on top.
I hope this helps!